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I'm 35 and I used to date teenagers. Sometimes only fuck, sometimes dating, sometimes few months relationships, now i'm almost at 1 year with my current gf. Problem is she turned 20 and for me this is considered old. 16+ is legal in most places but I used to just follow the 18+ rule because on tinder you gotta be 18+ anyway. But the thing is I really like this girl, but she seems more like a grown woman now and not like a cute teenager.

How do I cope?
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cope by finding new kids to rape
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What do you want out of life? You won't have a future if all you do is chase younger pussy. You're wasting your time on meaningless bullshit and hurting them too.
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>>33622937
Not a kid they are 100% legal

>>33622940
I dont know... maybe I should just be happy I snatched her while she was still 19 and should embrace a serious relationship? I've never been with the same girl for 1 year so I guess that kinda is a beautiful thing too. But I miss the thrill of picking up barely legal chicks and taking them to my house. Nothing is hotter than having a shy young girl who is legal and is interested in older guys and sweet talk them an drive them to your house and have sex with them. For me it's the hottest thing ever because it feels so naughty even though it's perfectly legal.

I wanna be happy of course, I also like relationship but I also want to have the hunt of finding young hot girls who are interested in older guys and fuck them so fucking hard on my bed while there is nobody to help them... But I also want a relationship and of course as i'm almost 36 maybe in the next 5 to 10 years I want kids and I will need a girl age 25 for that so perhaps its better if I stay with her

I just miss the hunt and the thrill of picking up teenagers and driving them to my home to fuck them
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>>33622948
nice humblebrag larp, fag
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>>33622948
You're a fucking loser, bro
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>>33622954
Not a larp, okay perhaps a bit of bragging for myself in a way to cope and feel myself better about myself but it's the truth.

I dont know if open relationships ever work. And I have been with a lot of girls (not to brag but for reference) so maybe staying with 1 girl is not for me. But I really like this girl and love her and want her to be happy too. But sometimes she is a pain in the ass of course.

I just dont know what to do or how to cope
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>>33622958
Why?
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I think I should just stay with her. But sometimes she is a bit stupid. Like has no interest in developing herself anymore. Doesn't even have a drivers license (it's very expensive in my country). Just has a shitty dead end waitress job and is content with it. I really like her and wanna stay with her but sometimes she is a fucking pain in the ass and i'm afraid that she will be too stupid to carry my children. Of perhaps she can still learn? But I really like her or love her even and dont wanna lose her. But I also don't wanna know if I wanna give up my 'freedom' sort to speak. Because perhaps any day now I will be too old to still pick up teenagers. When you are in your 30s it's easy, but at 40+? I don't know if many guys can pull that off. So perhaps I should just count myself lucky that I experienced all this and keep the relationship now?
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>>33622960
mold her into a good wife, become a good family and a positive influence on the community, all that good shit
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>>33622948
>Not a kid they are 100% legal
youre missing out
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>>33622979
Yeah she is from Eastern Europe and very conservative, sometimes even racist. She told me literally some /pol/shit about how whites should make babies because we are gonna die out. I shit you not this is some /pol/fags wet dream yet I personally dont care much about it.

I think maybe I need to work her a bit harder? Of course i'm her boyfriend not her father so i treat her as equal, but if she has no motivation to still develop herself.... like a dead end waitress job, no drivers license, she doesnt even speak the language of my country (but in Europe its normal for us to move countries lots of times) all that well which im pressing her to learn too. I just dont want her to hate me or consider me to be annoying you know so she considers me as a boss not as an equal. But sometimes I feel like I should motivate her some more

>>33622990
Yeah no sorry i respect age of consent, would never go below 16
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>>33622996
>Of course i'm her boyfriend not her father so i treat her as equal
bad approach, especially with a slavoid
>t. slav
of course let her have her girlchild moments, cherish those, but also guide her toward developing the skills she'll need so the family can be successful, her poltard tradwaifu bullshit doesn't mean she gets to be a spoiled capitalist baby
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>>33623008
Yeah you are 100% right. I care about her so much that I also want her to do good even if it means without me. I want her to be self sustaining, keep developing herself and her skills. Because with her dead-end waitress job and also without me she would be nothing. So it maybe is even my responsibility to work her a bit and push her to keep improving herself.

I know slavs need some man handling i'm quite good at that actually but sometimes I am a bit lazy and like to avoid confrontation which makes it difficult.
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>>33623018
just remember to start with the firm-but-fair angle, don't immediately go for mean
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>>33623024
Would it help to hint that I say it because I care about her and want her to do good even if we wont stay together? Or would that be interpreted badly?
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>>33623035
Badly depending on phrasing. Focus on it being good for both of you (the family angle), it just so happens to be good for her if things don't work out either.
It's normal for slav women to learn to drive when they turn 18, but she's an immigrant that doesn't know the language, so it's also OK if she needs some help and support *while* actually going through the motions. What's on her plate? Is she being a dead end waitress not doing higher education, or doing both uni and waitressing? Latter leaves her less time and energy, but playing with the hours and scheduling can enable her to start doing lessons, possibly with you helping with actual driving *if* you can do it in a way that makes her enjoy the process.
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>>33623045
no she doesnt study and doesnt want to, she just wants to work as much so she has the money she needs to do shit and just enjoy life. Whenever I talk with her about it she is like "Im still young I have time" but yeah like I said she is gonna be 21 next year so time is kinda ticking right?

But you are right maybe I should find some ways to talk with her about developing herself, get some skills, drivers license etc because ti would mean she can get higher up at work too and make more money and yes of course it would help her (or us) too if she can do more in life
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>>33623073
>Im still young I have time
she's 3 years late to uni and driving, and seems to not think of the future
I've seen her kind op, I hope I don't have to resort to one of those
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>>33623080
Yeah but then again in the past for humanity some girls always were like that and it was up to the man to take care of her and even though I would love to, I also want her to be strong and be able to fend for herself if we ever separate.
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I'm 30 dating a 20yo and it's only a hassle. She's bad at sex and honestly has a retarded conception of the world. Plus both her parents are doctors, so she doesn't even understand money.
She asked me why I didn't own my own house at 30.
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>>33622927
How do you fucking do that? How do you find 18 year old women willing to fuck an old man? Are you handsome? I will never understand that.
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>>33623438
I'm 18 and willing to fuck older man, but I'm ugly, not mentioning that I'm afraid to get killed because my mom keep telling me I'll get raped or killed if I talk to a man since I'm 5. Ig you don't need to be hot but to feel safe. The "convincing" part is important too, you need to sound sweet and all to be convincing
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>>33623438
just be urself bro
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>>33623404
Ran into this exact problem before. You either heuristically as her questions until she realizes she's retarded (spin it around on her, why dont you? what do you think) or you just blow smoke up her ass and treat her like a child. (Soon sweetie). The nice thing about 20 y/os is they're impressionable and more easy to mold into something you like.
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>>33623404
>I'm poor and its this girls fault

kek
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>>33622927
How do you do it? What's the method you use to pick them up?
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God i wish i was op
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KAM. you wont get blueballed if u KYS
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>>33622927
1/10 ragebait only because more than 20 people believed your shit
my first long term gf was 16 when we started dating and 21 when we called it quits
you don't notice that, no one notices that, the same way you don't notice how much your kids have grown up until one relative you don't see often comes and tells you.
the second one was 18 when we started dating and 22/23 when we broke up
same thing, she looked the same to me even in pictures and only realized how she changed after a couple years of break up
you don't notice, you haven't been with one, you're full of shit.
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>>33622927
Where are you going bro? There's only three roads from here
1) Stop going behind girls and live like a real man
2) Find a woman you really care for marry her, find a job and live with her for the rest of your life
3) Keep going behind younger bodies and you'll end up feeling pathetic, and ruining your life along with their's because they are literally kids
My advice don't chase them now let them live what you are doing is not good



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