>31 yo>very Catholic>nerdy like me>very smart>great banter and comfy energy>dreams of a house and children>cries in my arms today because she has HPV and didn't know how to tell meDoes this virus spread easily? Should I simply not give her oral? Am I fucked?
>>33634444For medical advice, ask a doctor.
>>33634444That means she can't have kids, it comes from having an untreated std for too long. It turns into hpv.
>>33634467It also means her vagina probably smells rotten. I know this because one of my ex's had it. Every time I went to eat her out, I'd be hit with this horrendous smell that she couldn't get rid of. Eventually we went to the doctor. I was in the room with her when the doctor told her that she had developed hpv from an untreated std and that she'll no longer be able to have kids because of it. That was 15 years ago and the doctor was right. She's never even gotten pregnant.
>>33634484They clear out that smell?
>>33634444Anon you deserve better.
>>33634495Yeah, they gave her medicine and it got rid of the smell
>>33634444It's not contagious once it turns into hpv. Only women get that I think
>>33634444HPV spreads really easily and 99% of people who aren’t vaccinated against it get it. I saw someone say only women get it. Not true. Men get it too. Some people have breakouts with warts and some people are completely asymptomatic. With women the issues are that it can cause cervical cancer and it can make you sterile. You do have options. You can get the Gardicil shot. I believe it’s two doses and that makes your chances of contracting it very minuscule. If you’ve already had unprotected sex with her, the good news is that your body usually fights it off on its own within two years and then becomes dormant (meaning it’s not longer able to be detected in your system). Chances of contracting are less likely if she’s not having a break out. As for the oral idea, I wouldn’t recommend that. If you get HPV in your throat, it can cause cancer to develop in you your throat. Once the virus is no longer detectable in her system on an STD test, she can get the Gardicil shots and the likelihood of it being transmittable are close to none.
>>33634467Not true. Some women do struggle with pregnancy after having it and some have little to no issues getting pregnant after. People react to the virus differently and there 100 different strains of it so it really depends on which one a person contracts.
>>33634444>Very Catholic>has HPV
Can HPV cause infertility in men? I've only had sex with one woman before and she was a virgin (which is believable, we were both 19 or 20 at the time). I didn't realize I hadn't gotten the vaccination because my parents are retards so I just started my 3 round dose. I don't have any genital warts or anything that has changed with me as far as I'm aware and apparently there's no way to test for HPV in men without physical symptoms. If I'm infertile, I'm going to kill myself
>>33637919It sounds pretty unlikely that you have it. I don’t think it affects men’s fertility. I believe having cervical cancer is what causes fertility issues in women. It’s not absolute either, I know someone who had cervical cancer and her doctor told her there was no way she’d ever had kids and she had two kids with no issues during the pregnancy. Also know a dude that’s doctor told him he was sterile from chlamydia and he has two kids. If you want to get tested to ease your mind though, Planned Parenthood does STD tests for little to no cost.
>>33634444Is this really the best you can do anon?There are plenty of other women out there.You really should be thinking about what kind of company she kept that resulted in her catching a sexually transmitted virus.
what about hsv1? Can you realistically date someone who has it without getting it as long as you don't kiss during outbreaks?
>>33639489Asymptomatic spreading, sorry bud. I think it's shedding like 5% of days even with no symptoms, so it's gambling
>>33639503damn, i met someone I actually like who has it. Thing is, it's always possible i'm an asymptomatic carrier which would make it a non-issue, such a headfuck
>>33639517Go get tested, apparently most people are infected
>>33639594i was told by a nurse that tests for it are pointless as they can be false positive or false negative.I'm aware that most people apparently have it - I've seen stats in the ballpark of 70% of adults, though I wonder how they can know given the apparent unreliability of tests
>>33639606Maybe she's incompetent? Hometests I've seen say 98% sensitivity, 98% specificity. Get a second opinion ig
>>33639489If it’s a cold sore outbreak then it’s unlikely that you’ll be affected if you haven’t had cold sore breakouts in the past. It is probably dormant in your system. I used to kiss my ex during cold sore outbreaks and was never affected by it. However, don’t let her blow you during outbreaks because it can be transmitted into an STD that way.
>>33634444>quadsChecked. No worries anon, there's a vaccine for HPV. Get the jab and you're in the clear. Your gf can get medication to clear up her warty pussy if that's a concern. The bigger concern should be genital cancers of various kinds -- genital HPV is carcinogenic and might give her sundry cancers of the pussy 5, 10, or 20 years down the line.
>>33640178There are differing strains with greater and lesser effects also.
she probably got it from you, OP. its asymptomatic in men. also it clears up on its own after a bit. idiots here seem to be confusing hpv (the virus that causes warts) with hsv (herpes, the actual incurable bad std)hpv is dangerous to women because certain strains can cause cervical cancer. you don't have a cervix, and if there's no warts present, it's really a nonissue, as it often can be asymptomatic.
>>33634444Go to a doctor for more specific advice, as a nurse I can tell you that HPV spreads easily through skin contact and object sharing. You should probably avoid sex until your doctor gives you the ok, condoms will not protect you. I don't know if your doctor will recommend Gardasil but it's still an option, it's three shots iirc. Take care, hopefully everything will turn out fine