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Did anyone here propose to a woman? How did it go, i'm thinking about doing it, but the chances are not to good.
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>>33634629
best and easiest way to break a relationship
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do couples really propose out of the blue? do you at least know if she wants to get married?
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>>33634665
she once mantioned she doesn't want to get married but after unprotected sex she joked if she gets pregnant i will have to take responsebility and i said of course while we laughed, but she said that she doesn't want children to in the past.
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>>33634690
your hands are tied, i would try to talk before making such proposal
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>>33634629
I mean, I proposed to my wife over a decade ago, and considering we're still married I'd say it went well.
Though admittedly the proposal itself was kind of a shitshow - I bought a ring my wife had her eye on at a mall jewelery store, and the day before I planned on proposing she went to that mall with friends and saw the ring was gone, so she asked me if I bought the ring, and I was caught so off guard I made up a pretty poor lie that she saw through right away. Then, I tried to salvage the proposal by taking her and our dog on a walk to a nearby dog park - the idea was that when we were alone, I'd tie the box to our dog's collar and have her act as the "delivery dog" for the ring. Naturally, since I didn't train our dog at all for this (young idiocy), the minute we got to the park our dog fucking ran off with the ring attached, and we both spent a good ten minutes trying to get her back. After that, I was so flustered I just got down on one knee and gave my wife the ring, and she accepted.
These days, the proposal story is just a funny little anecdote we tell whenever the subject comes up, it certainly wasn't a portent of doom or anything like that. Even at the time, we had a good laugh about how fucked up the proposal went, and she thought it was sweet that I actually tried to make it cute despite circumstances ruining everything. I think that is pretty emblematic of how a proposal should go: it's not about how you do it or how expensive the ring is, it's about the person you're proposing to. If she loves you, and you show that you love her, the proposal itself doesn't really matter.
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>>33634731
How old were you when you proposed?
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>>33634739
I was 26 when I proposed, we had been dating for eight years by that point and living together for six.
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I did but it was pretty obvious to me she was going to say yes. We were I think 4 years into the relationship by that point and living together.

>>33634690
Why bother if you aren't having children?
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>>33634629
If you are thinking about proposing to someone and you think your chances are less than 100%, don't fucking do it.
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>>33634793
I want to put a baby in her

>>33634822
Yeah its a bad idea, but i want her

>>33634731
Nice
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>>33634629
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>>33634629
Live together for three months THEN decide whether you want to make it permanent.
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>>33634751
>"I was 26 when I proposed"
>meanwhile i'm the exact same age and i haven't been on a single date in my life
it's looking grim for me fellas
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>>33637290
I’m 32 and in the same boat my guy.
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I proposed extremely low key at my house when in a single moment I felt such love for her I couldn't wait any longer. She did not enjoy that.
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>>33634629
>the chances are not to good.
They certainly aren't unless you learn the difference between TO and TOO.
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>>33635333
Make that three years. It's too easy for a woman to put on an act for three months.



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