The only thing that has ever got me to stop watching porn/nofap is just finding a moderately attractive woman (to your tastes and league, of course) that you can have sex with at least once a week. Girlfriend, fuckbuddy, whatever. Someone you can casually have sex with and not commit to so soon might be preferable because if you enter a serious relationship with them you might be subject to the whims of insecurity/not feeling fulfilled which will spring you back into the porn trap. Of course, this can vary and some women make really good partners while others are better to just maintain a fuck buddy scenario with.
>>33635083Another thing I'd add is once you have someone you can fuck, stop looking. The moment you hop back on tinder or open yourself up socially in real life scenarios where you could potentially meet a woman just turns you into a horny beast. Be happy with that one girl who lets you fuck her once a week.
ok but i can't find that and I've been trying for 15 years
>>33635083>finding a moderately attractive woman (to your tastes and league, of course) that you can have sex with at least once a weekmight as well just tell people who are poor to play the lottery and win.
>>33635083How though? I'm 5'6 and have subcontinental ancestry. My own women say no. Even Laqueeshas say no
Kind of hard to find a 6/10 women to fuck when you spend all day jacking off to 10/10 women online.
>>33635083I'm a 25 year old unemployed black man living a Canadian suburb. I don't think you know how fucked my situation is. If I want a decent woman, then I have to be a decent man and right now I cannot in good faith call myself a decent man. So until I feel like I'm in a much better position in life, dating is off the table for me. My hand will suffice for now.
OP is full of shit, it doesn't work.What you have to understand about porn, is that it is a FANTASY. You watch porn to get your mind out of your life.You can have a pornstar as your gf, that does everything you ever want and need in bed, and you will STILL watch porn, because your gf will be part of your real life, and you watch porn to escape it.True story: I was big on NoFap some 7 years ago. Spent 2 years without porn and masturbation. Got a gf, and in about 10 months, my relationship started to sour. What happened? Got back to porn.Porn, like any addiction, is not about the drug or medium, it's about your unresolved shit inside. Until you are able to deal with your anxiety and depression in a constructive way, you will NEVER rid yourself of porn/booze/drugs/trash food/social media/whatever the fuck kids do nowadays.
>>33635225>How though? I'm 5'6 and have subcontinental ancestry. My own women say no. Even Laqueeshas say noGym, get hobbies and a personality so you're not boring as fuck, and work on your charisma/ charm so you're fun to talk to.
This is truthfully the solution. This is what ive realized after nearly 15 years of trying to quit porn. If i was with someone, not even sexually but just physically(getting hugs, kissing, cuddling) i would stop watching porn and seeing escorts entirely. The thing with addiction is that its usually caused by you trying to cover something up, or fix something with it. Its caused by an escape that needs to be addressed. The problem is if you are subhuman like a lot of guys on here, and have been for decades, they dont know anything else. They dont know how relationships work, they dont know how anything like that works. Things fall too behind, and the chances of a fix becomes impossible because what they, and what i, want is impossible. Truthfully there is no woman out there for any of us. Porn is all we really got unless you want to go down the tired and difficult road of full on celibacy. The hole porn is filling is love and intimacy, but we are considered worse than rape to women, the worst thing they can ever imagine, so we cant find anything to fill that hole in so porn does it for us. Its such a shitty life, but its nature, and its something we cant control or have very very little control over. Truthfully like a drug addict i am just waiting to die its so hopeless.
>>33638176>This is truthfully the solution. Sounds good. Continue.>Truthfully there is no woman out there for any of us.Aaand you lost me. Fuck that. Maybe you're speaking for those too far down the hole? But even then, it's just dedication, introspection, and ultimately one's own decision to make a change that is the determining factor. Not some arbitrary absolute. >. Its such a shitty life, but its nature, and its something we cant control or have very very little control over. Yeah, fuck that "people/life is insignificant" and "things happen to me" vs "I'm in control" bullshit. That's true for you if you allow it to be. I do not. I'm responsible for my actions and I'm changing whatever I doesn't serve my long term goals.
the cure for masturbation is actually having sex? no shit
>>33635083Useless normie advice. Autistic mentalcels aren't going to actually have sex ever, so that can't be used for positive motivation. In my own experience fapping to porn has been so detached from any expectation of reality that I just live in my own fantasyland and choke it till it runs dry.
>>33635083There is no way my current GF would be able to have enough sex with me to curb my porn usage. I have gotten it down to masturbating to porn a little less than once every 2 days on average, however some days it can easily surpass 5+ when I'm feeling very in the mood. Me and my GF have sex on an almost daily basis btw, it does virtually nothing to properly curb my libido as I end up feeling sexually frustrated almost immediately afterwards. >>33635083>finding a moderately attractive woman (to your tastes and league, of course) that you can have sex with at least once a week. Girlfriend, fuckbuddy, whateverDo not get a girlfriend for this purpose. Get a FWB or a fuckbuddy or someone similar. I am aware that 95% of people on this website have slim to no chance of doing this, but ideally get 2 or 3 that you can rotate though, as one will not be enough.
>>33635083>>33641631>There is no way my current GF would be able to have enough sex with me to curb my porn usage.Don't listen to this faggot. This is what happens when you fry your brain. There's a thing called hypnotic rhythm. Everyone has a certain time before the universe essentially "takes a snapshot" and who you are is set. That's what happened to him. Don't be like him. Get your life in order, work on your self, build your confidence and attractiveness (hygiene, style, charisma all of which can be learned) and fuck real women. You'll fail and make mistakes, but it's a part of the process that everyone goes through. Even the hyperbolic "chad" has been told no before.
>>33635083>>33643334>>33641631>Don't listen to this faggotThat was a bit strong; I shouldn't have said that. But I do caution continuing on your path without making a change. No offense, but it is not normal to fuck your GF almost daily and still need porn. That's a pretty extreme case.
Hypergamy has destroyed most young men’s chances of a relationship. Porn addiction doesnt cause men to not have sex, not having sex causes the porn addiction
