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I'm 19M. my first (and only) time having sex is when I met this random fat 23 year old girl on discord and we had short unsatisfying sex. About a week or so later she sends me a DM telling me she's pregnant, at first I think she's lying or pulling a scam on me. But we met up and she did a pregnancy test at the doctors and yeah she is fucking pregnant and she is 100% certain that I'm the father. She is refusing an abortion and wants to have the baby but I really do not want to be a dad at my age especially not with this horrible fat lady as the mother of my child. This is seriously going to mess up my life as I was planning to go to university and my family will definitely never approve of her. She's a horrible human being and will never find another man who wants to be with her so she'll be left looking after this child by herself. I can't be a dad, I'm not ready for it. I want to meet a nice girl and get married and do things the traditional way. I don't want to be a deadbeat dad either but I'm not fucking sure what to do. I'm so fucking depressed and suicidal I don't know what to do. I haven't told anyone about this and I'm really dreading it, I'm so fucking embarrassed.
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There’s no way she would know that she’s pregnant a week after having sex with you. It wouldn’t produce a positive that early on. Most women don’t know they’re pregnant for at least a couple of months. She was likely already pregnant from someone else when you had sex with her. Tell her the timeline doesn’t make sense and that you are are going to lawyer up and demand a DNA test (even if you don’t plan on doing that), she’ll probably buckle pretty quickly because it is very obvious that’s she’s lying.
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Damn nigga you must have giga jizz to knock her up on the first try lmao.
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>>33636937
Did you use a condom dude?
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nigga just slip her a plan B covertly before it's too late
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>>33636985
I'm holding out hope that she's lying and will definitely demand a paternity test when the option is available but I need to prepare myself for the possibility that it is my child. I don't think she has really slept with anyone else so it likely is mine.
>>33636990
i had 19 years of blue balls
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>>33636937
You’ll probs have to deal with family court and then inevitably pay child support, OP

Not sure how this even happens, I fuck girls raw all the time and just pull out before I cum, never any issues. (Also you have to be willing to not cum sometimes, as not all girls can take it for long enough)

Try talking her into adoption?

Take the baby, when he or she is still a newborn, and bring them to a church/fire station? Maybe in another state. Don’t tell her what happened, go full nuclear, change phone number and move far away, maybe even leave the country. Legally change name. No social media.

Downside, you probably don’t have any money. Open up credit cards, use them to pay your expenses abroad, then never repay, maybe? You’ll trash your credit, but you can start over after 7 yrs
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>>33637079
I started off raw and then put a condom on halfway through, my dick was dripping with precum though idk if that makes a difference
>>33637149
I've thought about adoption but she is fixated on having this baby regardless of if I'm in the picture. I just can't bring myself to abandon the kid, I don't like the idea of my kid being somewhere out there in the world and never knowing their real dad.
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>>33636985
I was about to say. Except OP is fake. Why would a girl know she's pregnant a week later. LARPing along: Deal with it. Have your mom go to the salon she works at to meet her like that episode of "And Just Like That".
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>>33637428
Fr, that’s not physically possible lol. I’ll play along too. OP tell her Wolfman Syndrome runs in your family.
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>>33636937
you better skip town
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Damn you are stupid. Why would you meet up with her? Should have cut ties at DM and blocked her.
Pregnancy tests don't work until at least a couple weeks after conception and no woman is going to suspect she is pregnant that soon.
She is fucking multiple guys and trying to scam you.
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>>33637224
You are not the father.
Extremely EXTREMELY unlikely.
I have had pull out raw sex for years and never got a girl pregnant this far. She's trapping you with someone else's kid. Don't fall for this scam bro. She is abusing that you don't know better.
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If you want a traditional marriage with a nice girl, why did you fuck a fat and horrible human being raw?
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>>33639856
op is a healthy single male with normal testosterone levels and no stupid self-imposed mental handicaps like religion.
this kind of man will fuck most women aged 16-35 given the chance.
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>>33636985
>>33637428

Guys.. if they had unprotected sex and she was paranoid she doesnt need to "realize shes pregnant". She can just go buy a test.
I dont know if OP is real either, but for fuck sakes women get tests before pregnancy symptoms all the goddamn time. Its like you've never had sex before.

The dumber ones will take a test the next day even.
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>>33636985
Or she is pregnant but it’s from another guy she fucked a month or so ago.
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>>33637224
That’s a really good way not to get someone pregnant
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>>33636937
Run and hide
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>>33639867
This
Its not his fault no normal woman wants to get married or be his girlfriend
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>>33636937
This is why you shouldn't have sex outside marriage (though)
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>>33636937
Bruh.

Shit like this is why I prefer to jerk off instead of getting low tier women. Just not worth it.
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>>33636937
>my first (and only) time having sex is when I met this random fat 23 year old girl on discord and we had short unsatisfying sex
This is fkin tragic, didn't u use a condom?
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>she is 100% certain that I'm the father
Which means nothing. Women lie all the fucking time. Big lies, small lies. They do them all and they do them frequently.
On the off chance this isn't a fake story, speak to a lawyer and find out what your options are with getting a paternity test in your locality. It's pretty much guaranteed you're not the father, and a paternity test would prove that.
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Who the fuck said you still couldn't go to college?
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Welp, time to man up and be a father, kiddo. Unless you have other arrangements
>hands you wire hangar
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>>33640134
Not in this feminist shithole



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