Im just not good with women for a multitude of reasons. But, I can't change what I am. However, how do I stop perceiving my lack of a gf as me being a failure, alone, or a loser?
You have to be satisfied with yourself. Being in your own head and feeling accomplished are great ways at not caring about not having a gf.
>>33637327having a gf isn't really a milestone like graduating college. this sounds like sappy and tired advice but it would do you favors to keep yourself open when the right woman comes your way. being with someone for the sake of company fucking sucks when that person doesn't really KNOW you other than you just being their bf and just interact on the baseline bf and gf things.