A confession:>Always felt other people have it all when it comes to women. Relationships come and go, and it's too easy for them. >Decided to pick myself up. I learned guitar over the last two years. Started going to the gym about a year ago. Have a successful job, and was able to buy my own car with it. Back in January, I planned to move to another city to study, all self-funded.>In February. Had first serious relationship at 22 with a good, caring girl who paid attention, was responsive, and would drop off gifts at my place randomly. Very clingy. We were also very intimate and physical with each other. Despite this, she isn't the best looking. She's skinny, but her face is wide, and her hair thins. Tits are there but nothing special. >After 6 months, I break up with her. I went into the relationship knowing I had to break up because I was moving away. She cried a lot, and hoped we wouldn't be strangers. I felt sad but I knew it had to be done.>Won't lie, going away gave me hopes of meeting someone else. Now that I had gone to the gym, now that I played guitar, now that I lived by myself, now that I had a car and a job, and now that I knew how it was done.
>>33638840con't>First week of college, see pale, skinny brunette with blue eyes. We talk. We message on DMs. She wants to try some food. We talk about places nearby, and I ask if she wants to go. >She's taken. Every pretty girl I've talked to is taken. Didn't need to ask them out, they mention their boyfriend in normal conversation. Everyone is in a relationship. >First girl still messages me and wishes me well in my first week of classes. Now, did I fuck up by dropping the first girl? She had a great personality, she makes me laugh, but I don't think I'm attracted to her physically. I got turned on when I kissed her and when we got intimate, but I felt I settled. It sounds mean but I don't want my kids inheriting the wide face and thinning hair features. Is this normal or am I shallow? Did she spoil me and cause me to lose interest? Did I only go into it knowing that it was gonna end?
>>33638840>>33638850Did you move from a small town to a city?
>>33638864Big city to bigger city
I wouldn't say you fucked up, but it's just the opportunity cost of striving for better. And this time, the payout wasn't worth it - so far, at least.
Just tell her (HONESTY) and discuss with her You definitely fucked up by leading her on
>>33639260I don’t think I should tell her about it. Specially after I broke up with her and live in a different city. That would just add salt to the wound. Whenever she texts me (not often) I’ll text back less, until it naturally goes away
