So bros, I'm a 28 year old guy, pretty introverted but with the right people (like her for example) I can get extroverted, and I met this really cute 23 yo Albanian girl that's been born and raised in Athens working as a pharmacist, I live in another country but a flight would take around two hours to reach Athens, so not far.We met on this language exchange app, I wanted to learn or actually improve my Greek since I know a bit, she wanted to learn Korean but we still talked even though I didn't know any Korean, so she helped me with some Greek, and also practiced some English, even though both of us are pretty fluent in it. So we talked and got comfortable with each other for around 3 weeks, told each other good morning/night, we sent each other a few pics, some voice messages, selfies, she even sent me a no makeup beach pic, we talked about out lives, what we want for the future and what we want in a partner, you know I guess more mature kinds of talks, but we also sprinkled in some memes, jokes, and flirts/teases as well. I asked her if she has any boyfriend and she said no, and that she isn't really looking for one.Now out of the blue in one morning, she just told me that she's really upset about this, but that we have to cut contact now when it's early rather than later, cause she started liking me and stopped seeing my as just a friend, and I got so mad and sad about it, I tried to convince her that I will come to Athens and meet her, but she said that long distance relations don't work and she doesn't really want a boyfriend now anyways cause of some personal issues as well, she also said she gonna move from Athens in a month, and I told her to give me any of her social or number, but she said she doesn't want to because of what she said earlier...So after a bit of talking, she said goodbye and wished me a good life, and that I was a good guy who will find someone as good as I am, or can't exactly remember what she said but basically a goodbye forever.
>>33639768You never met. You don't know her. You crave a fantasy.Recognise this and snap out of it. I sort of relate because I used to go on Omegle back in the day, and would occasionally stay in touch and explore sexual fantasies / send nudes / cam with the same girls for months. It was like having a long distance relationship with some of them. So odd. I was such a lonely teenager. But come on bro. It's sad, it's a poor substitute for 'real' life and you absolutely need to snap out of it. You know this.
So what else can I say cause I reached word limit in the previous one, she was also a pretty introverted and shy girl, and I basically made myself a routine of talking daily with her, giving each other good mornings/nights, going outside after work for a beer and talk to her, and after the goodbye, she deleted her account, and I tried to search for her on social medias but no luck so I just let her go since that was her wish. For the first 3-4 days I barely ate something, didn't even play games which I did daily in my free time, I felt an emptiness in my stomach and throat, I barely slept a few hours every night and was thinking about her before going to sleep and after waking up, making up "what if" scenarios, like what if I told her something different, maybe it would've changed her mind...so here I am one week later, starting to feel a bit better, started talking with some other girls but it's just not the same, with her I had this connection and chemestry I haven't felt for like 6-7 years, with another girl ( a similar type of story but she was from the same country, anyways) and yeah, I feel so damn empty even though I have friends and went outside with them for a beer/talk, have some hobbies, have work, but I still think about her, and that we really could've been a great couple together, if only she would've given us a chance, I could've even moved to Athens eventually since I work remotely and I can basically work from anywhere there's internet, idk I guess maybe she was also a bit autistic like me, didn't really meant it I really don't know what happened and why she took this decision outta nowhere since we both vibes and felt comfortable with each other when we were talking, we had some small "arguments" if I can even call them that, but were more of a tease and we didn't swear or anything like that, I don't know guys ask me anything else about it if I forgot to say or you have some questions...also my last relationship was like 7-8 years ago
>>33639786Yeah man I know I really gotta snap outta it, I'm trying to realise this to but it's so hard, when you make a routine out of it, and she made me so happy when we were talking, I felt alive even though I can't say I miss things in my life, I have a home, a car, some lovely parents, friends and all that, but I guess having someone to love is what I'm missing, and she made me feel like that, I am not the type to talk to dozens of people, and she was kinda the only one I was talking with, i did talk with some other girls as well but didn't feel this kind of connection and chemestiry that I had with her, I read about "limerence" and it might be something related to this, making ideas and filling all the holes with positives about her even though I haven't even met her irl one, so I put her on a pedestal and thought she is the perfect girl, but that's the vibe she gave me after all we talked....
>>33639797Yeah, that's exactly what you did.Been there, done that. Even with girls off dating apps - one in particular, on text she seemed so sweet, so kind, genuine - but we met and she was just a bit awkward and weird in person.
>>33639790>move countries for someone you never metThe trouble is you're not happy. You're day dreaming about a life in which you'rd happy. Be brutally honest with yourself - what needs fixing in your life? And do it. Don't fall into fantasy.
>>33639807Yeah that's the thing, I'm also pretty damn picky about whom I vibe with, I mean if I don't feel the connection/chemestry I just stop putting in effort or stop talking at all, and she ticked all the boxes for me...>>33639813yeah man I know it sounds weird and all, but I VERY rarely find such a girl with whom i can make this kind of chemestry/connection, and i started making myself fantesies and plans, and when she just hit me with that shit in that morning, everything just came down on me, since I really thought we might see each other, ok maybe not move there especially if we didn't go along irl but at least I really wanted to see her at least once and see how she is irl as well, maybe this is also part of what's been consuming me, cause since we vibed so well in text and voice messages, i thought and fantasised that we might also vibe irl as well, but i can't know that anymore...and I really am not unhappy/depressed or anything, it's just that I maybe miss this thing, having someone whom i can love and be loved back, from my life for lots of years and when it comes, it just leaves as fast as it came
>>33639768just fuck any women, anything that movesyou'll realize they're just meat, fat, bones and hair
>>33639831nah man i'm not like that, i really want to find someone "special", someone with whom i can make a family with, not any cheap slag, and if i want to fuck i can just hire some deluxe escort/whore that can drain my balls empty, but that's not what i'm looking for
>>33639768I won't read how to move on threads. They are always extremely long and posted by someone who gets perverse satisfaction from torturing himself, and I won't indulge his fetish by listening to him.
>>33639797Nice LARP ass hat. Now I know that every single post here can be disregarded. Fuck off. Not convincing anyone of shit
>>33640843HE IS SAME FAGGING BACK AND FORTH TO CREATE DEMORALIZATION CAMPAIGN AND TARGET OTHERS
>>33639831I think they call that a sex addiction
>>33639786This and..>>33640843This...Especially when the so-called "move on" threads are about moving on from a person they've never fucking met in real life.I'm really getting fed up with these fucking kids where their entire lives and social circles are on the internet. Go the fuck outside...You don't know her, you don't love her, none of this shit is real. You never really know a person until you actually physically interact with them in person.How do they behave in real life? How do they act in public? How do they react in certain situations? How do they treat the waiter when your out to dinner? Etc...Any time I see some child lamenting over a virtual, online non-relationship it fills me with rage and I don't know why.Plus, I'm sure most of the people in this thread have similar, bullshit "gfs" and "bfs" they've never actually met. Go meet a real human in the real world and get over it, pussy...>>33639827>since we vibed so well in text and voice messagesOP hasn't even video-chatted with this person. Jesus fucking Christ...There's a solid possibility it's a literal dude using a voice-changer.Grow up, kid...
