As the title says i need to move out fast but im oblivious to how things work so im stuck here. I just cant live with this family anymore that expects me to do things that i don't understand and am not explained. "Just get a job", yeah like how and what sort of? I cannot do things with lots of face to face with strangers as it just makes me break down but there are not a lot of alternatives. And ignoring the type of job, i just don't know how to do it. I tried applying a bit but it didn't work. When i asked my parent how to make a proper application they didn't know (im supposed to however), and the stuff that comes after being accepted i just don't get either. And since im not on benefits (because my parents ignored everything while diagnoses and paperwork was easy and i don't know how to get) i get bossed around and humiliated daily. I don't know man. How do i fix this mess? I just want to have some small apartment and like 100$ of disposable income but i just don't understand. Whenever i has some sort of issue with social stuff i got told "you are a loner its fine" but now that i need to navigate all this stuff with other people and paperwork im just supposed to get it? Dude like how?I have a appointment with a psychiatrist booked on Thursday to talk about how my meds are treating me but is this a person i can complain about this too? Will it help me get some sort of gibs and a job for keeping retards busy? I am in germany also. I have like 150$ bucks in cash and 500 in possessions but i don't think that that sort of money can help escape this.
>>33640170Your psychiatrist may be able to point you to some job advice. You clearly have no idea how expensive living is. 150$ might get you a couple months rent if you're lucky but also you'd need to use some of that for food unless your parent's still giving you money. Selling things also isn't that easy. 500 in possessions is probably closer to 400 or 300 on the market. You cannot sell for what you bought for. If you're diagnosed you still should be able to have paperwork filled out to apply for benefits.
>>33640197Oh, I forgot to say how expensive food is. When you're fully medded up and having a good day, take a night to go to your local grocery store. I say night because it'll be less crowded. Walk around and look at the prices of food. Think about what you would eat in a week and total that up on a calculator on your phone if you're not actually going to buy anything.
>>33640197>150$ might get you a couple months rent if you're lucky but also you'd need to use some of that for food unless your parent's still giving you moneyOh i meant that monthly after food and stuff. I don't need to buy a of things and the clothes i have i wear for years. I don't mean like immediately but more after i have gotten a proper job and a proper place without any sort of government money. 100 bucks a month i could spend on stuff like sim cards and other non essentials is something i want to work towards.But yeah i don't have a 100% clear view of how much it costs to live in my country. But then i see people near or in poverty wearing new clothes and use the newest iphone and stuff and i just think that if i had that sort of money i would be fine.>You cannot sell for what you bought forI wasn't clear. I mean that that sort of networth is fine to me. I don't need to expand. I just want to keep what i have and be independent. Because like this its like i don't have anything at all. I can't but the things i have to use or else its another reason to be screamed at. Even spending the cash i have is controversial.>If you're diagnosed you still should be able to have paperwork filled out to apply for benefits.This is something very confusing too. On paper i only have attention deficit but in words (so unofficially) i got told multiple times that aspergers is something i have too.But even if both things were in writing and presentable to the job office, wtf do i do. I unironically just don't understand it. I have no bank account, no work experience, this fucked head, but i don't understand how to change anything, right.
>>33640170Stop looking to 4chan and your family for advice. Reach out to local resources. If you don't know how to do things the right way, then do them the wrong way. Make mistakes, be a stubborn problem person, just don't lose your temper. People will get irritated at you but just learn to accept other people's reactions, even be amused by it. Keep searching, and eventually you'll run into helpful people and job opportunities.Or maybe get addicted to hard drugs. There are so many resources for drug addicts where they get everything handed to them on a platter.
