My fiancé took a job in another city without consulting me. It's over, right? Like I should just break up with her at this point, no?
>>33640326Nigga that's your fiancé just fucking talk to her.
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>>33640326Need some details.Does your job provide more or less than hers (specifically the one she plans to get)?Have you had any conversation about it? What was said? The more specific you can get with I said / she said the more useful.Is the city in which she took a job larger/more glamorous than the place you currently live.Do you and your fiance currently live together? How "tied" to your current place of living are you?How intertwined are the both of you in each others' lives? Shared friends/ Get along well with each others family/ etc. Do you have joint finances?How long have you been engaged? Was there a wedding date set?All that said its probably over. Uprooting and moving without telling you her plans is anti-commitment behavior. If she perceives her new job offer as a superior provider than your career (even if its not strictly true, financially) there's a high likelihood she thinks she can upgrade. Despite all feminism's stated values of equality women notoriously ditch the man if his role as a vastly more able material provider is not blatantly obvious.
