I tried joining a run club on sunday. I went there alone, smiled and said hey, asked if this is the run club meeting point. Some people unenthusiastically said hi back but most already knew each other and gave me the cold shoulder. I did the warm up and then ran alone in the middle of the group in awkward silence. I tried to stay open but it was very obvious people didn't want me there.The group always goes for coffee or some event together after the run but I just left.I feel so fucking defeated. I spent 5 years of consistent lifting and running to build myself up but it's all useless because of my horribly ugly face and manlet height (5'9").I have no idea how to go on.
>>33641255Some people just aren't friendly. Maybe you're just awkward from not interacting with people or being so self conscious. Just look at all the super ugly actors in movies and think "They can do it, so can I."I don't know what you look like but being thin and fit is a huge one up in the terms of looks.
>>33641276I am awkward but without putting myself out there I won't become normal. But it seems impossible now because nobody wants an ugly awkward manlet guy around. I am way uglier than the ugliest hollywood actors (who often just look normal).
>>33641255>>33641287>I'm uglier than a hollywood actor>I'm a manlet who's one cunt hair away from being 6 feet tall>I'm a subchad jawvirgin>I'm a bloopdyblurpblarpBro you're just a shy introvert
Thats their fault but dont give up just cause of one interaction
>>33641316And what is the solution here? Should I try going to the run club again?
>Is it even possible to be social if you are ugly?Danny DeVito.
>>33641345sure if you like running, go try other things you're into as well.
>>33641346Look up young Danny Devito. He was quite handsome when he was my age (25). I am A LOT uglier than him.>>33641354Hmm, the only things I also do is gym, yoga and I like dancing.
>>33641375>I am A LOT uglier than him.Explain. What about you is ugly? What parts of you are incomprehensibly revolting to the point that no amount of good humor can fix you? Because in this day and age, unless you have a severe facial deformity there's nothing wrong with you that you cannot fix.
>>33641413>weak downturned jaw>ugly nose>terrible bone structure>deep nasolabial folds>red hair>terrible skin tone from all the sun burns I had as a kid because my parents left me in the sun unprotected>dark eye bagsMy bite is fine so jaw surgery is not an option. I have a skin-care routine from a dermatologist but the damage is on DNA level. And people naturally hate gingers, we are more hated than Indian men.
Austrian ginger thread, do not engage.
>>33641255People want to stay with people that makes the feel good. Having a ripped body or a pretty face don't make people feel good. Perhaps ovulating females want you to impregnate them, but that's all.You have to be someone that makes others feel good.Hope this helps.
You’re just the new guy. Maybe that group isn’t very friendly, try another. Nobody gives a shit what people look like unless you’re in high school, or dating someone. Hanging out or doing activities nobody gives a fuck. I did meet up for a while and most groups were friendly and I’m ugly as fuck. Most were cool. Just try another
>>33641255Stop being a sad cunt and start being a sick cunt.
>>33641755Staged pictures are not reality.
>>33641255>Some people unenthusiastically said hi back but most already knew each other and gave me the cold shoulder.Runs clubs are a bunch of dudes who gatekeep the women in the group. They're not happy to see another dude pull up because he's competition. Also they all know each other because they probably scare away the new guys lmao. I wouldn't take this experience seriously, if you're fit then you can't be that ugly because low body fat percentage is already attractive
>>33641755If you have enough money you can pay people to look at you naked.
