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I've met some Argentinian woman over the internet and we've managed to bond amazingly, humor was on point, understanding for each other etc. (for context I live in Europe which is a different continent). I knew her for merely 2 hours and we managed to trauma dump and get some sort of attachment going because our chemistry was on point, felt sad once I told her that I have to let her go because I don't befriend Women. Reason being that I did that in the past and feelings formed with another girl, we've had to separate ways and it left me in a hole for months of recovery from someone I have never met in real life, my experience with her has proved to me how important intimacy is as she was quite flirty and pushy with it (she had a killer body) and sent me some pictures.

Is it a problem that I'm losing someone who's likeminded? Or that there is no possibility of making it? I really wish I could shoot my shot with her irl since I've had a lot of fun talking to her, so did she.
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>>33641569

>she was quite flirty and pushy with it (she had a killer body) and sent me some pictures.

It's because you were jerking off to the photos. The pair bonding hormones release after you nut, even if they aren't physically present. If you don't cum to her photos then you won't experience the same attachment.
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>>33641569
You're a human male. No matter what anyone tells you, you're wired to desire affection and sex because it's something that *should* happen for most men not living in Jewish social media-enabled hypergamy clownworld.
Sadly in Jewish social media-enabled hypergamy clownworld, women will extract the attention they desire from you without giving you the affection you desire back, and that's what is probably happening here.
Your two options are either to put yourself out there IRL and try to find another woman, or give up entirely and let the misogyny consume you. I can tell you after having done option 1 most of my adult life and moving to option 2 now, both of them bring you pain. Just different levels and duration.
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>>33641595
Yeah I agree

>>33641605
>attention they desire from you without giving you the affection you desire back, and that's what is probably happening here.
Oh not at all, we were quite horny and just played along. It was much bigger than just being horny to be honest, we have talked everyday and genuinely bonded. Had similar interests and all that, horny thing started with her and it escalated. She had some clear daddy issues but besides that she was insanely mature despite being just 18.

>Your two options are either to put yourself out there IRL and try to find another woman, or give up entirely and let the misogyny consume you.
I do but none of the women I see really interest me that much, must be because I have a thing for non-white women and ironically enough I live in a white dominant country. And by dominant I mean around 99%. I don't know if I should move for the sake of seeking love. I don't want to leave my family which I value highly.

I am not misogynistic which is why women get all over me, as a matter of fact I can really speak to them on some sort of Vampire seducer level. They don't even know how I look like and I tell them that I'm short or something with hopes of shaking them off but it just doesn't work, they always tell me how I'm one of a kind guy or that they would date me irl if possible.
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>>33641624
>I am not misogynistic which is why women get all over me, as a matter of fact I can really speak to them on some sort of Vampire seducer level.
Bro they're turd world women looking for a ticket to an easier life, and having game online is much much easier than IRL. Don't flatter yourself too much there Alucard.
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>>33641677
Ironically I did have long wavy hair and I looked like Alucard at one point.
Yes you're entirely right about having easier game online. However the first girl was from UAE already living in upper middle class if not rich. Meanwhile the latter one I have no idea about, she told me she lives in the US and visits family in Argentina. So I can't agree that they just look for a ticket to better life considering they live in more advanced countries. They seemed like they've had an idea on how dating works and already some experience, their English was well spoken too so not some third worlder.
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>>33641569
This post is legitimately the saddest, most autistic thing I've read on this site.



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