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Without the body "needing" to release sexual tension. Becoming asexual would work too.
>prescribed some ssri
>they kinda help by causing ed
>prescribed naltrexone
>usually for alcohol addiction but it helps with other cravings too, like gambling and coom
>side-effect is that it retards your ejaculation
I "had" to coom yesterday and, thanks to both of these meds, it took me from 15:00 to 23:00 to finish. It was exhausting, hellish, and not pleasurable at all.

Books like EasyPeasy (nofap, no porn, etc) mention partners, which I have none and most likely never will, but that's fine.

Any help is appreciated, including meds I'm unaware of but could ask my doctor for them. I'm willing to be chemically castrated if that's what it takes to get rid of what many call "natural" needs.
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>>33644791
As a male, if you do not release once in a while, it can lead to health problems. ED is one of them.
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>>33644791
For me it was simply realising that this is normal, and that 91% of men consume porn on daily basis, i did not want to be satisfied, i wanted to be free, so as the worst degenerate out there i repented, i haven't watched porn in like 7 months now. Lord is good, return to Him. Linked to this was my view on women, porn turned me into an incel, and it wasn't until i realised the sheer purity of Our Lady that i recieved hope again, i don't care that women don't look at me, i don't care that others get what i don't can't, my job is to be without blemish on my part.
I get sexual urges very often, but i never act upon them, because i know that it is not right.
Hope this personal story helped, even if you don't believe that there is a God, accepting humility and accepting yourself and what you have now will help, i guarantee you!
Godspeed.
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>>33644856
this is the stupidest shit I’ve read today
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I've been celibate for a bit, it's fine.
The majority of guys here are total victims to their hormones.
Also, the average 4chan user is retarded.
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>>33644791
>>>/x/41044715
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>>33644856
you get morning woods and wet dreams, your dick will do its thing with you participating or not.
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I went 100 days. I'm sure it is possible if you are a priest or something.
Finasteride works if you take a dose high enough to treat prostate issues (5mg a day), but I don't think you should take a drug to kill your sex drive.
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the w in man stands for wisdom.
just fap.
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>>33645663
Thanks anon. I wish I had faith, and I do try from time to time. If there is a God, I hope he can forgive me for my degeneracy through the years.
>>33646163
I managed to last three months, so I know it is somewhat possible. I want to believe.
>>33647082
Thanks. I've been there before, but I'll take a closer look on the links.
>>33647116
I'm already taking two, one extra won't hurt. I have to think of something.
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>>33644856
I've heard that before, but I don't wanna do it.
>>33647098
I don't mind, as long as I get rid of lust and desire.
>>33647393
No, enough is enough.
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>>33644791
Higher dose SSRI
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>>33647568
>I managed to last three months, so I know it is somewhat possible. I want to believe.
I also don't fap anymore.
I'm a pretty attractive guy actually. Always had women interested in me, usually even several at once.
But, for the time being, I'm more invested making art and my other hobbies.
Had my share I guess. Some women surely exist that can change this, but I'm not actively looking. We'll see.
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>>33644856
>ED a problem
>as a CELIBATE
you are unironically a dumb fucking retard
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>>33644791
First month of nofap is the hardest. Start day by day and next time try to last just one more day. After a month, the difficulty will very abruptly plummet. Obviously stay as far away from porn as possible. For attractive women or generally feeling horny. I personally remind myself of STD rates with bioweapon pussy and aborting mass murder pussy if for whatever reason I start feeling. Does absolute wonders for killing any of my interest in the opposite sex. LOL NOPE.jpeg. Figure out what works for you.

If that still isn't enough you can look into boner killer techniques but that shit is psychological torture and the solution is unique to the man. I personally got three but considering the side effects I haven't dared to use them years. Easier to just kill the thought before the boner emerges I have discovered. Wet dreams can be avoided if you realize what is happening and stop it. Not sure how to teach or explain how to do it though. Nothing you can do about morning wood from what I know.
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>>33647667
Tried before. Too many side side-effects, but it didn't get rid of the urges.
>>33651639
>I also don't fap anymore
Good for you, fren. It feels gross and exhausting at this point.
>>33651651
This. Why ED would be a problem?
>>33652672
If I lay in bed without being 100% ready to sleep, I'll have some sexual thoughts, and that's a problem. During the day, some trigger may cause some urges, and they are nearly uncontrollable to the point the would cause me nausea.

I've been trying to cut triggers, but a common one is e-thots wearing gym shorts, which is as common as dirt on the web. Without the meds, that would be enough to get off, but because of what I described in the OP (meds retarding the ejaculation and causing ED) I would seek more degenerate stuff, just to "get it over with," which would bring in feelings of disgust, shame and failure. I'm gonna look into boner killing techniques, even if it's psychological torture. I don't wanna live like this anymore.
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>>33644791
>Is it possible to become celibate?
Millions of 4channers accomplish it without even trying.
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>>33654404
Being "celibate" is not only about not having sex, but also abstaining from orgasm (cooming) and masturbation. Considering the number of porn boards and goon threads, I don't think that's the case.



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