Sorry for my bad english... I have a two topics to coment. First,i dont feel me comfortable with my relationship,i fell her dont prioritize me,dont want date me,she dont reply my messages,our conversations is not enough,i fell it,even though she saying that talks a lot.The tolds me that did talking with a other man,a her friend,and i did understand that she talk better with him than me,and this blow up my brain,i think in this a lot and i cried for this,bro is the second time that she stops talk with me for talk with a other man,like how? Another time,she pass the all hours the day no respond my calls and messages,but i just did want know if she were fine,you know,she reply me tomorrow,i do the same thing another day,and know what she did? she ignore me,and stay angry,i just did want see her,but she ignored me and run far away from me.But after,she treat me very well,she did want see me,call me to your house,basically treat me with a true girlfriend,but just in a situation with a risk of break up our relationship,you got it? i dont fell me well,and i dope me,drink alcohol so much,just for this,and i dont break cause i think i have emocional dependence in her,and i dont wanna separate from her,i fell that if i break i will fell me better,but im unable. Second point,i hate when she talk about the her past relationships,when i see past chats of the her ex boyfriend,i fell a absurd hate,i fell me uncomfortable,but i dont say this to her,cause i have fear to her break up with me,i dont like this risk.Am i a toxic for feeling this way? So i keep this for me,and i suffer at night with this,i ever think,i just wanna a common relationship like of my friends,like of all peoples,the others girlfriend will go at your boyfriend,but mine seems that dont worry with me,i will go at her,i send cute messages,its all me,never her. This depresses me... Some help for end my suffer? or how i say all this without seems immature,using the right words?
your gf has BPD and is evil, consider leaving her. I recently broke up with mine because she sounded similar to yours, it took me a very long time to get tired of her and when she instigated the most recent argument in which she was straight up lying we decided to end it. The relief and peace I feel is massive, you will feel incredibly good, de pum pum no worth it brudda.
>>33645554>Am I in a bad relationship?>proceeds with paragraphs upon paragraphsDude stop. None of its needed and im not reading it. This shit isnt complicated, and by doing all these youre making it complicated. Answer this question:Is this person being in your life a net positive?>yesYou're in a good relationship. Sacrifice is part of it.>noYou're in a bad relationship. Dont overthink it, end it, move on. Fear is normal. Lots of people get paralyzed here. Now is as hard as its ever gonna be. There wont be a perfect day or moment to break up.And I did skim your post. Youre suffering. Youre hoping to squeeze out of her your ideal like someone squeezing juice from a rock. It isnt there.
