i'm struggling with feeling strongly sexually attracted to my girlfriend. she's really pretty and actually gets hit on all the time by other guys. the gist of it is that i'm not super into her proportionality. she has HUGE boobs, and zero ass. i mean like 100% to 0%.sure boobs are nice but i'm a total ass man. we got together because things were so natural, and i will say we have good sex, but i never can finish ever. i'm struggling, i've always been as ass dude. this isn't going to change, i'm 31 she's 39. i will say she looks really good and we have great sex but for some reason i'm hung up on this. it's so fucking stupid. i know i should be thankful, we have great convos, laugh all the time, the relationship is great. and yet i catch myself looking at other girls all the time in person, sure it's normal to desire other people when you're in a relationship but i look at other girls even more now. also i'm handsome and get a lot of attention these days so it rubs it in a little. idk what to do. we've been dating a month now. i really love her so much and don't want to hurt her feelings. but i wonder if this is sustainable long term. also unfortunately asking here, my therapist has been so unhelpful with me on this one for some reason. maybe she thinks i'm being shallow and maybe i am. i feel like a piece of shit. i settled for someone i knew i didn't think was 9-10/10 hot and i knew i'd feel this way. i guess i lept into the relationship cause it felt so natural like i said. like i've never had a relationship as good as this one. this is the only real hangup. and i don't want to throw this all away over one little thing. and on the other hand, this could last a while and i'm closed off from other relationships or possibilities. i feel like a shallow piece of shit feeling apprehensive about my relationship all because she doesn't have an ass. i don't deserve her. and my therapist probably thinks i'm an asshole
>waiter! my stake is too buttery and well done!
get a male therapist
>>33646370Luckily ass can be grown. Its all muscle and fat. Just have her do more running, lunges, squats, etc.
>>33647688now that i think of it, it’s been getting better in that department for her bc of the sex we’ve been having. and me too turns out that builds butt muscle pretty goodokay i feel a little better here. i calmed down and worked out a bit and realize that what i have with her is way too good to get hung up on this. and i am a shallow asshole, i posted to 4chan bc i knew i wouldn’t be called an asshole here. my therapist has just been really quiet when talking about this with her and i think she thinks im shallow or an asshole so that’s got me worked up instead.i’m glad my girlfriend loves me and thinks im a good person despite the fact that i’m thinking this way. i don’t deserve her but hopefully i feel like i do at some point
>>33647736Lower body workouts and running. Optionally add 100-200cal to her diet
