I need help /adv/I was laid off in February. I have $15k of credit card debt, I had to move back home to work for my family to make ends meet. I had a terrible car crash two weeks ago, totaled my car. My mother got angry because not having a car meant I couldn’t do what she required of me, and she demanded I buy a specific car I did not want and couldn’t afford on my own, promising she would cover it. Then her BDP decided to act up and now she’s kicking me out on Friday. I was given a week’s notice and if I try to push for my legally required 30 days she will get violent.I’m jobless, broke, in debt, stuck with a $710 a month car I do not like and can’t afford but can’t get rid of, and I will be homeless tomorrow. What the hell am I supposed to do?
>>33649458Next time don't listen to your BPD mom
>>33649458Buy a pad and some pens or pencilsEvery day make a checklist of things you need to do and then do everything on the list.Forget about things you like, your entire life is your daily checklist.If you live in a country/city/state where marijuana is legal try becoming a legal weed addict. I'm convinced marijuana is a problem solver.
>>33649489I live in California. I’ve never smoked anything and don’t plan on it, I live a sober life.>>33649484She’ll be dead to me as far as I’m concerned, but that doesn’t solve the immediate crisis
>>33649458Something between "you've been out of job for half a year already" and "nigga you have 15 k debt" hints at the fact that you're not in control of your life. The fact that you do not *like* your car and consider it a big problem hints at what kind of fucking retard you are. Thesis: She probably made you get a cheap loser car, because you need *some* vehicle to get by, but can't afford a big fancy ride. Maybe I'm wrong about this aspect, but otherwise you seem to not be honest about your situation.In any case: Step 1: Get A Job Faggot.
>>33649458Aren't there other family members that could help you? Give you shelter and a job just for a while?
>>336495131-the credit card debt was me having to live off them for over a year, a while back, I haven’t ever made enough money to fully pay them off2-I had a cheap used car, and made me buy a brand new Mazda. I didn’t want a new car and I didn’t want a Mazda. J would have preferred a cheap used Toyota. I have been completely honest about my situation, if anything, I left out more of the worse details because I’m not trying to trauma dump. It’s been a very hard last 5 years of life for me.I have been trying to get a job, I’ve had 4 interviews this week alone, but that doesn’t solve the homelessness >>33649516Not a single one. No family or friends that can help me
