is it normal for women to desire other men when in relationships? i’m curious bc i have a couple experiences to mention:>be me right now, 31. used to be skinny and dorky but now have well defined muscle and look good and masculine >two friends of mine have girlfriends of several years>one time friend A and his girlfriend A are showing me something and i notice her lightly touching my shoulder every now and then>sometimes when the three of us are sitting down together she will touch my foot with hers very discretely, like “accidentally”and: >friend and his girlfriend B and i are at a wedding for another friend >girlfriend B is staring at me all day>the three of us are going back to the little house where everyone was wedding prepping >girlfriend B says to my friend “don’t you want to go back and hang with [all the other groomsmen]>obviously he says no but this makes me think she was trying to get me alone >next time i see girlfriend B when the three of us hang out she’s smiling and staring at mewhat do i make of this? am i hot enough to make committed women interested in me? are these women dissatisfied in their relationships or otherwise settling for what’s convenient? or can people not be trusted in general?
>>33650479It's normal for men and women to take notice of others even when they are in a committed relationship. Fantasies are perfectly understandable, as is light flirting. It is only a problem if they choose to cross the line and go further, becoming physically and/or emotionally compromised and actually cheat.
>>33650479if you want her then just fuck her without making anything permanent. if she'll cheat on her boyfriend to be with you then she'll cheat on you with some other dude.
