Without drawing this out too much, I messed up dating the girl I fell for the most. This was a year ago now. I wasnt quite ready, I didnt think things through as much, and I failed. Since then ive dated, ive learned more things about what I want and so on, and I still think of her. Nothing else feels right.We met online. We didnt know what each other looked like, and we quickly grew together and shared pictures. This created a unique dynamic, the one where the persona we build of ourselves is reflected in earnestness, we didnt care to hide the weird parts of ourselves, in fact we enjoyed it. The dynamic worked very well and it was genuine. There were esoteric, specific things about each other that we simply understood. We shared many things. I adored so many things about her, and I fucked it up in the end. A small amount of blame can be shared, but its most definitely my fault. I simply havent found anything that will replace this. Nothing feels good to me, I hate to say this but the girl I dated a year ago was perfect. Im just not sure what to do. Its not that she was better in any way, its just that everything fell into place so well. It just felt right, like im done looking, this is who its going to be. I truly think we would have been a great couple, and that she, and I, would be happy. I hate being this cheesy but it felt like love to me.She has moved on, and is dating someone else. If ive learned anything about love, its that if you really do like that person you need to know when to let go, and to let them be happy in the way they see fit. I just dont know how to do that myself now, and I feel just as much of a failure now as I did then. While I have learned, I have accomplished nothing. I think im just going to give up, at least for now.
>>33653067Give up and live your best and if you meet someone worth it give up on that too. With all your heart give up.
>>33653067Fuck that. If you let them go like that then you're just a cuck and you never loved them in the first place
I will never give up on her
well she wasn't perfect because nobody is, I can tell you that muchMoving on is really hard and there's no easy solution, but you have to understand there is a whole reality created in one's head that is warped, and that can keep you tied downdid you end up meeting this person IRL? sorry if I missed somethingalso curious how you fucked it up, allegedly>While I have learned, I have accomplished nothing.learning is the accomplishmentotherwise, there's nothing you can say you do it in the context of this relationship that didn't make your lives better, even in the moment? never got to kiss her or anything? because that's also a W
