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How do you let go and move on from something when there was a strong mutual connection and the door didn't fully close?

>hook up with coworker (2nd base) after we admit being into each other (a bit over 2 months ago)
>she has a bf: significant age gap, don't live together despite 8 years together "on and off"
>text frequently for a month
>go on one date that goes super well
>hard to get her to hang out because she felt bad/guilty for sneaking around with me
>eventually meet up for her to tell me she can't keep seeing me like this (6 weeks ago)
>despite that, end up cuddling and even kissing (which she soon stopped to not "make things worse") that day
>keep texting at a gradually slower pace (stopped as of last week)
>work together and talk in person, felt totally fine and mutual

I hate how I can't get over this. I've spoken to my friends and family. I've told myself idk how many times how she made her decision, tried to paint her in a negative light, etc. hell I even got a date this Saturday that I can't feel excitement for because of this lingering feeling. is it all too fresh and recent? how long will it take?
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>>33653489
You made a chick cheat. Would you want to be on the receiving end?
If the answer is no, then you should understand why what you did is immoral and no amount of rationalizing ("oh, but he's sooo old, and isn't even around...") is changing that.
Be better than that, do not pursue taken women, and move the fuck on. There's like a trillion other chicks, and try he fact that one of them put out for you hints at the fact that you're not completely hopeless, so go get another one.

Whenever you get horny for a taken chick think of balls or something.
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Wow a 911 memer AND a loser?

Like poetry. Maybe, just maybe. You're a shitty person and gotta learn how to act'
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>>33653518
go back or learn how to ack, tranny
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>>33653551
You will never fill the hole nor that chip on your shoulder faggot. She ain't coming back for your bitchass
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Ok I'm a bad person - question is HOW to get over it?

>>33653551
Not OP



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