Like, what is the path to a healthy relationship?Fucking is no problem.Hookups I understand.Casual shit, flings, whatever you wanna call it. Yeah been there, and tired of that temporary life. I need something permanent and not what I've been doing. So I ask for external perspective, what is the steps for a healthy relationship in an ideal context? I've fucked on first dates so is that like a no-no everytime or does it depend? Or does that sabotage my efforts? So many questions..
>>33653623"Hey [name], I am interested in a long term thing, how about you?"Wowsies, that was stupid hard...
>>33653623Do the casual stuff but be so good at it that one of them asks to be your gf.
>>33653651In the words of the arbiter>Where it so easy>>33653798How the hell should I simply be then? Aloof? Independent of the outcome? Forward? It's hard for me to navigate relationships that are in purgatory it feels like I'm still navigating the boundaries. Where is the line for appropriate escalation?
>>33653840>How the hell should I simply be then? Aloof? Independent of the outcome?>Forward? It's hard for me to navigate relationships that are in purgatory it feels like I'm still navigating the boundaries. Where is the line for appropriate escalation?Try to get a rotation, then you won't have to worry about it. It's harder to get attached to one person and display needy behavior when you have multiple other options.
