>There's a girl, and she fucks guys she's never even seen or even known.>That means her most important assessment for fucking is simply attractiveness and nothing else.>I get along with that girl, but I don't DM her daily because I know this isn't the kind of game you need to fuck these types of women.>I'm going to a party with friends.>My friends had been promising me beforehand that they'd do whatever it took for me to hook up with that girl.>It's the day of the party, and the girl ended up wanting to fuck a friend of mine (she and the friend only met once), who didn't tell me beforehand that he also wanted to fuck her.>Okay... as a matter of Modus Tollens, if a girl fucks just anyone and, oddly enough, doesn't fuck the closest person (me), you'd deduce that she already doesn't find you attractive and doesn't even see you as a man. In short, I felt insulted.>When she insulted me for not finding me attractive or even seeing me as a man, my most readily available revenge (in keeping with the tit-for-an-eye approach) was to ghost her on my social media.>She's angry and won't talk to me.Am I the bad guy here?
>>33653940Nah, but it's a pretty stupid decision because you could've used her to get other women. Just take her out to places as a friend and that social proof will make you more attractive to other women automatically.
>>33653940She thought of you as a friend. Incomprehensible to men, but some girls have the childish idea that they could be friends with a guy without the guy permanently planning to get into her pants.
>>33653947Would you want to go out with someone who has disrespected you?
>>33653940Yes, after all this time you still haven't learned that you should not engage in this behaviour, your solution wa sto ghost her, not change yourself for the better.The modern world s crooked, you need to grow a spine and shun this sexual behaviour, not engage in it.With that said, repent for your actions and be a stronger person mentally, don't fold over every degenerate women like a wet towel.Godspeed.
>>33653967It's not childish, unless your IQ is 57 and you think of sex all the time like an animel, you can mantain a friendship with a girl, the problem is that the opposite will happen, and she'll want to get in your pants after a long time.Nobody has a pure heart, and it's becuase of that.
>>33653968A woman having sex with someone other than you does not equate to disrespect.
>>33653967I may have been "friends" with her, but even she didn't see me as a man.
>>33653977That would be true if she were evaluating him based on other criteria like charisma, appreciation, etc. But in this case she fucked him because she found him attractive and nothing else.
>>33653976Almost everyone thinks of sex quite a lot. Men more than women as well, so whenever a not sexually aggressive guy shows up, girls cling to the idea of having "that one male friend that she can just be friends with". Of course that is a major pain in the ass for beta males, because they ALWAYS get put in this category, while the chicks fuck around other guys.If OP wanted to get into her pants, I think he's doing the right thing.
>>33653984Becuase you are not a man, you have no spine, otherwise you'd get enranged by such degenerates being in your proximity- i.e. you'd never talk to her or you'd shove her off.
>>33653992That's an illogical belief. Men who are born attractive have something valuable, which is good genes, which produce offspring that are more likely to reproduce. There is no reason a woman has to value charisma or personality over good genetics.
>>33653993Keyword: almost.And 91% of men consume pornography on a daily basis, the solution is to stop beinga a sexual degenerate, so stop being a baby and grow a spine.>>grr grr i must have sex i must
>>33654000Sex is fun, fuck off ya low sex drive nignog
>>33653998I didn't say I should be judged on my personality, I just want to know what the best thing I could have done was.
>>33654006>Sex is fun>Starts crying when it is taken away from himI pity you.
>>33654010>I just want to know what the best thing I could have done was.If your goal is to get women, then staying friends and using her to get other women.
>>33653940If a woman doesn't see you as a man, that's your fault. Women are sexual selectors. You're using Modus tollens to vindicate sour grapes. >b-but she's a loose whore I just want to fuck! Then why do you value her at all? It's worse when men are fucking cads.
>>33654029>Other women
>>33653940>Am I the bad guy here?You're not the bad guy. But you are fucking stupid.
>>33654027That's the fun part: It's not being taken away from me.But well, if you get by without sex that's fine for you, but it's definitely not the norm.
>>33654035The fuck is that?
>>33654038So why not make it the norm, it'd be like introducing fitness to an obese society, or giving special kinds care/education.I do agree that it would be hard since people are morons who would seek maximal satisfaction in life rather than humbling themselves even for a bit.
>>33654037I'm going to jerk off thinking about you
>>33654038She's already a sexual degenerate, if he got other women through her, he could've landed a partner, but he'd land HIV aswell.
>>33654052Did you consider that your personality isn't actually that great, and that you're actually really weird?
>>33654047Fun things are fun, can't fault people for it.Of course there's prudes that want what you want in backwards asshole countries like afghanistan, but also growing in strength in the evangelicals in the us, but thankfully for now they are a minority.Opinion: Chasity and any concept around it is dumb.
>>33654055Bro, I just said that for trolling.
>>33653940Why do you want STDs? Because chasing her is how you get STDs
>>33653984Did you ever express your attraction to her, show any sexual/romantic interest at all?
>>33654060IDK that chick was hot
>>33654057Fun things are fun until they stop being fun, and where do you draw the limit?The image of a fat gamer who leeches off of his parents well into his 40's, who spent most of his life playing videogames and has done nothing more is aborrent. Just becuase he has had fun, and had the right to said fun, does not mean that he has not ruined his life with it. When people preach that we should limit it, and not get ensnared by it, it's a writing on the wall which aims to prevent people from destroying themslves.Hence, grow a spine and don't enslave yourself to fun like a monkey.
>>33654057>Chasity and any concept around it is dumbBecuase you´ve already traded it, and are jelly about people who are mentally stronger?Pathetic.
>>33654072>grow a spine and don't enslave yourself to fun like a monkey.No.
>>33654079Please. Men who don't have sex are not mentally stronger, they're guys who can't get laid and then justify it to themselves as a virtue.
>>33654079>and are jelly about people who are mentally stronger?LOLI've got my shit in order, but also embrace my bodily needs. If you can't do that because some old people told you fairy tales that's your loss.
>>33654062No, but neither does the friend. Besides, she would have wanted to know that (and therefore asked) if she wanted to be with me in the first place.
>>33654081>Men who don't have sex are not mentally strongerDo they also reject voyeurism, smoking, alcoholism or other harmful things with it? If so, it'd be hard to say how it's not a virtue.>>33654086>but also embrace my bodily needs.You can try doing it to the full and become a 300kg slob, or try fasting, don't eat anything for at least 4-5 days, by the time you start eating again you'll be in moderation - your needs imply something essential for you to live, being a degenerate is not one of them.
>>33654101>Do they also reject voyeurism, smoking, alcoholism or other harmful things with it? If so, it'd be hard to say how it's not a virtue.Grouping things together that are not similar is a symptom of autism.
>>33654101>You can try doing it to the full and become a 300kg slob, or try fasting, don't eat anything for at least 4-5 days, by the time you start eating again you'll be in moderation - your needs imply something essential for you to live, being a degenerate is not one of them.It almost sounds like you should shed all those unnecessary comforts that you currently enjoy, including but not limited to access to media (why are you on 4chan and preach that you wouldn't cave to any such things? :D), that blanket you cover yourself with at night and that truly pointless varying meal you're having. You only need beans and a vitamin tablet.Because that's apparently what the ideal life looks like: The bare necessities are covered, but everything beyond that is decadence.
The betrayal in this scenario came from your friend. What are you avenging yourself for? Her not giving you something you secretly wanted inside your head? Her finding a different man more attractive or diverting from your theory on her mate selection priority?
>>33654120You're right though, i ought to have less social media, but i also try to help people who struggle with addiction and encourage them here, so i'm in a struggle. I only eat as much as i need, only eating meat once a week or so but i can cut it out, it's usually Speisequark and bread, I did sleep on the floor in a sleeping bag a month ago but i stopped, you actually have a point here, i was being hypocritical, yet my point stands.>>33654117They are all forms of addiction, and you're a slave to whatever rules over you, be it one thing or another, from porn, to gambling, from drinking to smoking.
>>33653992That's idiotic, how does a girl wanting to fuck a guy because she finds him attractive disrespectful to OP?
>>33653940>women insulted OP>because she ended up fucking other dudes instead of OPI know this is probably just troll bait but I've been here long enough to realize that some anons really are this fucking stupid.
>>33654387>They are all forms of addiction, and you're a slave to whatever rules over you, be it one thing or another, from porn, to gambling, from drinking to smoking.By definition, addictions are only bad if they negatively affect your life. People have coffee addictions and they are fine. The comparison to slavery is amusing, since most of us are actual slaves who work for an employer, yet you are more threatened by having sex.
>>33653940>Am I the bad guynot reallyhowever you should have known from the start it wasn't going to happen. and you shouldn't have bothered befriending her if you only were in it for potential sex.
>>33653940gigachad for ghosting she just uses you for chatting, happened to me before...never again
