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How does one cope with failure?
How do you find motivation for anything else when the one thing you poured your heart and soul into fails completely?
They say "do your best", but when your best isn't enough, what do you do?
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>>33654242
>you poured your heart and soul into
If you did anything that actually mattered, you still achieved loads even if people didn't respond how you wanted.
Example: If you learned music and released an album, you still learned a ton about music, producing, selling, etc. even if the album failed
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>>33654263
that's.. actually good /adv/, anon
thank you
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Not a lot of detail to go off of, so i'll make this very general

Anything worth doing is difficult. This isn't some TV show where you're gonna be brilliant and perfect the first time you try something.

Life is going to be difficult and a lot of things are somewhat scarce which means there will be competition.

There are thousands of examples of people who made great impacts on the world around them after failing for YEARS. Don't focus on the 'failure', analyze the experience, take the lesson, and be that much better next time.

That plumber with 30 years of experience that makes 6 figures got that way because they fucked up a lot. That mistake they made in their 2nd year stuck with them - thats called experience. They get paid so much because they did it 100 times and now they are aware of that mistake that will cost them time and material.

Keep grinding, anon. You're not a failure till you quit.
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>>33654804
Not OP but solid advice here, thank you anon, I needed to hear this
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Idk just keep doing it anyways
Who cares what other people say, I always forget that other people exist half the time



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