I don't want to full on transition but I do want to try out being a man for like a few weeks. How permanent is testosterone if I start taking it, and what are same ways to look more like a guy in the short term?
>>33654876If I fuck you in the ass during your transition, would it count as gay sex?
>>33654896Yeah cause I'm transitioning to be a guy. My husband controls our income so I'm gonna have to do this on a pretty tight budget of just what I've saved from money he gave me for errands. So if y'all could help me with cheap advice that would be a big help.
>>33654876nothing noticeable will happen in 4 weeks
>>33654876Imagine the worst day of your life (prolly never had one lmao foid) is everyday. Done, you’re a man now.
>>33654876>I do want to try out being a man for like a few weeksUpsides:- you don't have to worry about safety, at least nowhere to the same degree. night walks with earbuds in are wonderful- people take you seriously without you having to prove yourself. they just assume you know what you're talking about- people treat you with more respect right awayDownsides:- every woman will treat you as a potential threat to their physical safety until you can prove otherwise ('they wouldn't for me because I know how to not make them uncomf-' I promise you every pre-transition FTM thinks this and I promise you they would still see you that way. ik you're not trans but that's the easy correlate here)- people will give you far less grace, kindness, and patience- you may be punished in various ways large and small for extending grace, kindness, and patience to others- the world will suddenly become a much meaner, colder place. you will wonder if you are doing something wrong. You're not, that's just what it's likeUp to you if this trade sounds worth it or not
>>33654876>try out being a man You will never be a man, just as I will never be a woman.I will never know the shame of a menarche, the joy of carrying a child, the pain of childbirth, the sense of loss at meopauseJust as you will never know the weight of loneliness, the constant sense of inadequacy the world forces onto you, or the responsibility of being the force between your loved ones and the tigers in the darkHope this helps!
>>33654876You can’t go around taking testosterone. wtf. Just dress like a dude.
>>33654876Go on the lgbt board
>>33654937How long could I stay on it if I want noticable but reversible changes?>>33654967I just don't want my husband to act like he thinks I'm just gonna trust anybody who talks to me and wander off to get murdered. I try to give people the benefit of the doubt and he acts like I'm putting my life on the line trying to be nice.He keeps bringing up the Charlie Kirk stuff and saying how people are just getting shot for words now, but I don't feel like I'm dealing with people who are that upset.>>33655000That, that's my problem. I don't want to be a burden on my husband. I want him to respect that I can handle myself so I feel like maybe if I can show him me living as a guy he would respect me then?>>33655043Well I have to get a script for the testosterone from the medic first, but I figure I can dress like a guy until then. I'm worried I won't get the script for the testosterone pills if I tell them it's just for a little while though.>>33657939I don't want them to try to persuade me into doing this full time.
>>33655000I'm a guy and I feel none of these things desu
>>33654876>I do want to try out being a man for like a few weekscan't you just dress up as a man for a while?
>>33658814I tried this but nobody would believe I was a guy. I think bc I have a feminine frame and I was hoping to like change that temporarily to try again.
>>33654876You won't be a man, you'll just be a woman with fucked up hormones. You'll be a woman forever no matter what you do. Fucking retard, only a woman could be this stupid.
>>33654967>- you don't have to worry about safety, at least nowhere to the same degree. night walks with earbuds in are wonderfulThis is highly dependent on where you live. Feral nigs can still attack you.
>>33659099You're a fucking idiot. No, mutilating yourself won't change anything. You can't change your frame you fucking retard and if you could, it would be permanent, not temporary. If this isn't bait, you should legitimately kys. Just to be safe, kys if it is bait too.
>>33659099lol taking hormones is no joke, they will alter your brain chemistry permanently, I wouldn't take them "just to see if I like it", it's like going to a war front just to see if you like it or trying hard drugs just to know if you won't get addicted.
>>33654967All your upsides are completely negated if OP is like 5'1
>>33654876T can act quite fast or not much at alllisten, if you can accept the risk, I suggest going on for like 9 months. I found that after I went off my voice mostly settled near where it used to be, and I totally passed during that timeif you can pass without being on T try that, but if not, try it for a few months. Expect some facial hair (that's permenent, but you wont get a full on beard in that time), some voice drop (maybe a whole octave, but like I said this can lighten after going off for awhile, but never 100% the same), and honestly don't over think it, gender's not real anywaydo prepare yourself for your little friend to grow like 20x it's original size though, that stays
>>33659099try shaving your face (only women have fuzzy face) and your hairline too (stupid ass whispy hairs only women have, mow that shit down make your hairline recede)
>>33654876Before you transition read Self-Made Man: One Woman's Year Disguised as a Man by Nora Vincent.
>>33654876You won’t pass so what’s the point? You won’t be viewed as a man socially. You’ll be viewed as a barely trans person. Furthermore, it’s not as cool as you think. Each sex has its pros and cons. You might as well be writing that you plan to transition to being a penguin. It’s not possible.
>>33658548> I don't want to be a burden on my husband. I want him to respect that I can handle myself so I feel like maybe if I can show him me living as a guy he would respect me then?Why the hell would you have to transition hormonally? That makes no sense. Women can be strong and responsible. If that’s what you want why even consider “trying out” being a man. That’s not even possible. If your husband doesn’t currently respect you, it has nothing to do with your social gender (of physical gender) perception. Either he’s an asshole or your conduct is contemptible in some way. But I promise you your hormone structure has nothing to do with any of that. Seriously, how do these thoughts enter someone’s mind?
>>33654876Some things in life you wont ever experience. Dressing like a man and taking test doesnt make you a man, it makes you a woman obviously trying to be a man.Be happy with what you got
