These are the pictures of a (rare) conversation I am having with a woman on a dating app. I very rarely get matches and most of the time when I do I get ghosted. Why is she so fucking dry and boring? Am I doing something wrong?
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>>33656250>>33656253>>33656259>>33656264>This is what dating looks like in the year of our Lord 2025Grim
>>33656250Why don't you act before you get ghosted? Don't try to be like the others, following the same script.
>>33656250This is so bleak jfc. I have no clue why she's being so dry you're doing fine. You're putting in more weight conversationally than the men I usually end up talking to.
>>33656250It's because she's talking with a bunch of other men at the same time as you. It's really hard to put focus and effort into a conversation when you're juggling a bunch of others at the same time.Not to mention that everything you're asking her, she's already been asked by literally hundreds of other men. She's bored as fuck of going through the same script.I used to do the same thing, now I just ask girls out within a few messages. Some girls want to establish some rapport first, but this girl clearly just wants you to cut to the chase and ask her out.
>>33656290I know, not OP but I put in this amount of effort and women either come up with 1 word answers or never reply. It's crazy
>>33656250GET. OFF. DATING. APPS.I get all of us Internet addicts are borderline autistic shut-ins, but it shouldn't take that long to realize that dating apps are ineffective mind-prisons built to destroy your self-esteem and make you hate women.I know going outside to Church or events or something is a big ask, but I promise you that you'd have a better chance there, and you won't have to be ghosted 10 times in row because all the women you're talking to have 20 other dudes in their matches.
>>33656250you come off as really desperate, 5/10 of your messages are weird compliments. you aren't asking her anything about herself, just that one question about movies where she probably genuinely didn't know the answer off the top of her head why are you using heart emojis? you're not in relationship, and you're supposed to be a manalso please stop with the double question marks>>33656406>I put in this amount of effortbleaki'm genuinely surprised she's still replying, you must be somewhat of a looker
>>33656288/threadYou basically just keep asking meaningless shit until she gets bored.
>what’s your favourite can of soup to eat?Why do they always ghost me!
>>33656250My first guess is she's a hooker. She expects you to be like "want some fuck?" or offer to buy her things right off the bat instead of having pointless mundane conversation.
>>33656259>Anything really >I don’t watch moviesSo it’s not really anything, huh? She sounds like a boring wet fish riding off her looks. I’d bail unless you’re just trying to smash.
>>33656250My strategy was to ask them out in the first few messages before the convo gets dry. It usually worked well but not always
>>33659181Was this the movie you watched? Cause it’s about a guy name Sam who’s retarded like you.
>>33659181I'm actually watched LOTR (first movie) today and I read that in Frodo's voice, kek.You could've replied with "how about a walk and talk in the park on the weekend then?" or something like thatAs a guy that doesn't drink alcohol, people suggesting bars and grabbing beers when I barely get to befriend them have me like pic related
>>33659213>You could've replied with "how about a walk and talk in the park on the weekend then?" or something like thatNah by that point it would just look desperate, best to just move on
>>33656250Most people actually are NPCs, it's not a joke. They have no life behind the eyes, no interests, no thoughts of their own. They live on auto mode and their conversations look like that.
>>33659217Nah it would show you're not phased by her initial concern, which sounds pretty valid to me as it seems like she might be new in the city and that guy wants to show her the best bar. Just react with a "oh ok how about ... ".
That's a bot or catfish not even a real woman
why in the holy fucking shit are you complimenting her and using emojis stupid idiot? every other simp does that. abandon ship, she already knows she won't fuck you
>>33656250>>33656253>>33656259>>33656264This is a woman who has nothing more to offer than her body. If you're looking for more than that, abandon ship.
i got a girl's discord the other day and she only said "Hello"it's so over
>>33657219I'm not OP, but you mentioning church spoke to me a bit. You see, I was raised Christian and I do believe, but I find that there are so many Christian's who do not follow the values and on top of that they preach louder too. I'm the type who doesn't butt into anyone else's religion but also doesn't damn anyone either. I have certain things that just aren't for me. In my experiences other Christians often try to tell me how I'm supposed to live my life. I'm not okay with that. I would like to go meet someone who hasn't been part of the hook-up culture, like myself. At the same time, I don't know if going to church is right for me for that. I've never like guys who are being phony. The non-believers who go only so they can get their good girl. They lie to their woman about their values. My values don't line up with church values either. I do not trust churches. I see so many churches being misused, not spreading the word properly. Yet I am also not one who spreads the word. I think by going to a church I'd find a woman who would just want to realign my values closer to their own. I try to be a good person. I don't lie anymore. I don't cheat. I don't steal. I stay away from drugs and alcohol. Anyway, I got a church thing tomorrow that my mom's friend invited me and my mom to and I'm not sure I'm being honest if I go. I believe in God, but I also believe that these days churches are set up with cult mentality. I don't trust churches. If I go, I'd feel like I'm lying. I don't know how else I'm going to meet someone and I don't think going to church with that as the goal is right, but if I went that would be exactly what I'd be doing.
>>33656250Eh I’ve seen worse. Some people are just dry and she’s being relatively compliant. Just push for the meet up instead of doing all this boring chit chat.
>>33656250Dude shut that down and get her to a coffee shop. You never go back and forth.Its:-hi-joke or banter -anyway Im busy talk laterThen later-hey Im free this day wanna meet up?Done. All this shit is first date talk. You're wasting it. Its also dull and awkward. What impression do you think that gives her about you before she's decided if she wants to meet you or not? If you guessed that it'll be dull and awkward, you're correct.
>>33656264>I'll have to think about itGod fucking damnit the amount of times I've asked women the most basic questions and they can't provide a fucking answer, Jesus fucking Christ and a fucking stick.
>>33661227Aak basic awkward questions, get basic awkward answers.Ask what they'd do if they didn't have to work and money wasnt an issue, or what their perfect vacation would be. Let them gush about their dreams and fantasies not what their favourite fucking Netflix binge is.
>>33656250>>33656253>>33656259Yikes, she clearly doesn't give a shit and you sound like a weakling. Whats with all the emojis and compliments to her appearance? Super model? Are you indian?>>33660320tl;drYou expect someone to read that yapp session of your church life? C'mon, summarize it if you want anyone to give a shit
>>33661232Bro that's exactly what I do, within reason, I ask questions like>What do you think would be important to you in raising your kids?>How does your X value align with your Y value?>What principles do you live by?>What kind of Fitness do you do?>Have you heard about X, what's your opinion on it?>EtcThese are kinda dumbed down, but it seems that little to no women can answer these question. All I get is>Harry Potter>I like Sushi>Buy me things>Give me abortions>Jesus Christ is everything I believe but I cannot define what I mean by being a Christian other then the fact that I was raised that way>I have 6 cats and 5 kids and still can't define what I'm looking for in a partner besides a blind simp to pay my billsI didn't honestly believe the demoralization about modern dating until I decided to start trying to get out there again, and God Damn, all the fucking incels were right man. Women don't think about anything whatsoever except hedonism. The sheer amount of tattooed abortion seeking party animals on these sites is killing my hope. SSRI's and contraceptives have fucking ruined their chemistry, all they do is consume, and seek zero recursions for their lives.Women do not live by principles.
>>33656259>Tell me what you do for fun?>Anything really> Anything? Even <insert batshit example>?
>>33661623Good response, but:>if she’s attracted“Lmao no (talks about herself or jokes back”>if she isn’t“No lol”OP is doing fine, she’s just not attracted. It was over from the start. Just because a girl matches with a guy doesn’t mean she’s intrigued. When you talk to a girl who’s into you or finds you attractive, the difference is night and day. A conversation takes TWO to make, not one. If one party isn’t trying, it’s because they aren’t interested.
>>33656250Way too many emoji. She doesn't use even one. It screams how invested you are and how much she doesn't give a fuck. It's grim
>>33659213Kek same.>>33659181Should have replied "It's like in the great stories lady, the ones that really mattered"
>>33661749Not attracted? Girl doesn't have a single thought inside her head? Why the fuck is she talking to him if she's not?This is dysfunctional communication and it should not be normalized, this bitch needs to state what she wants, and if she doesn't want OP then why the fuck does she waste everyones time in replying?Jesus H, how did we all get like this?Single Mother households?
>>33656250dear god anon this is the driest dating app conversation i have ever had the displeasure of reading. she is either a catfish or absolutely not into you. when i'm actually into a guy i am sending him rambling walls of text lmfao>>33658665kek
>>33662113It’s because it’s an interaction on a fucking dating app, which is not the real world.
>>33662233I regret ever engaging in dating apps, it's demoralizing and inhuman. But where the fuck else do you meet people these days?
>>33662256Try flirting with the Amish girls at Walmart. They have to be desperate to leave that lifestyle.
>>33656290She’s dry because whores have been spoilt with choice and are constantly waiting for a better, more entertaining or richer and hotter man to come and sweep them off their feet. Of course this doesn’t happen, and at 35 they find themselves with a few bastards from their one night stands and no man to love them, and since they don’t have the self awareness and reflection they’ll victimize themselves and blame men.
>>33658611>you aren't asking her anything about herselfExcept in most messages you blind retard
>>33656250I won't read app-addled threads. They're totally delusional.>t. back from a 3-day "racism" break courtesy of the kike trannie janny who was terribly offended by the name Shlomo.
>>33656250>Damn wassup supermodelah yes, the old tried & true ice breaker of acting like a cartoon 1990s wigger>I'm actually at the gym right now [HYSTERICAL LAUGHTER EMOJI]bro I am PISSING MY PANTS, I am at the gym!!!!!>Tell me what you do for fun?Phrasing it like a job interview question is always a Chad moveAlso the double question mark?? Very feminine energy.I love zoomers texting because the men text like women with extra punctuation at every sentence and emojis everywhere, while the women text like men just completely dry no emojis no punctuation
>>33660320I think what really matters is your intentions, if you're going there to meet people and show what you really are, then who cares, if you're in any way religious, then just by knowing you're not going there to swindle a woman into a one-night stand you're already being good. It's okay to not want to settle for an alcoholic BPD woman laced up on antidepressants, covered in tattoos and piercings with a body count of 20+.Just take that first step and let go of your worries and inhibitions
You're talking about boring shit. Typing "oh wow, nice!!! :O :D Haha lol" before dry shit doesn't make the conversation engaging even though you're putting in effort to appear emotionally engaged yourself. I bet you're attractive since she keeps responding despite your trying to bond over gym routines.You clearly aren't trying to play it cool considering you keep making large scale compliments that make it obvious you're desperate and beneath her. The alternative goal is to form a deep connection in a short time. It can be hit or miss if you aren't compatible but talking about the weather or leg day is a miss by default if she has several men messaging her about something more interesting.Another thing: keep questions open-ended. People like to talk about themselves but disengage when asked a specific question that's complicated for them to answer. You chose a topic (movies), she had a problem with it (her shit taste) and told you to lead the conversation. This is where you need to have a genuine and approachable take on some movie ready to go. If you aren't that into movies either the conversation dies.
>>33662813>People like to talk about themselves but disengage when asked a specific question that's complicated for them to answer.And there it is.We are forced to appeal to the shittiest parts of human behavior for the sake of propriety, because they don't know how to define their values or answer real questions.I'm tired of talking about the shitty nonchalant shit, the surest way to invest my time is by asking hard questions, and determining if that person is in line with my values. Everything else should be kept to a mimimum, especially with somebody I barely know.
>>33659181>>im a woman how can i trust you>is this an ego thing because the feeling is mutual, you did just say no to meeting at a place I picked specifically so I won’t get catfished and robbed or catch a spurious struggle snuggle claim
>>33662605That sucks dude, think of all the threads you weren't able to not read.
Retard, this is a photo of pornstar BunnyBlondyX look up on ph.. You are writing to a pedo
>>33656264>>33656259>>33656253>>33656250>calling her a supermodel 3 fucking timesNigga that's embarrassingStop placating the egos of whores, they don't find it attractive believe me. I'm not saying to be a negging try hard PUA faggot but stop treating whores like they're queens. You're part of the problem Also, use less smileys. And no heart emoji unless you're already intimate
