>>33656835
You do what makes you happy OP

>>33656835
It does kinda sound like a plus if you are not wanting to impregnate.

>>33656835
Well you are basically volunteering to be a stepdad to someone elses bloodline, someone fucked a random whore, and you are volunteering to take care of their kids for them like an actual cuck.

Personally not for me, but do what you want.

>>33656917
I think canonically Thor's main woman was a milf that was like the hottest girl ever with two fully grown children when they got together. Not sure tho.

>>33656835
Depends on the kid. What if they're a fucking asshole who contently asks their mom for money and she starts expecting you to help out?

>>33656927
Well guess what, thor isn't a real person and was a made up character, this is real life. In real life things aren't like that.

>>33657204
A made up character based on distant patriarchal societies values and thoughts

>>33656835
no one’s stopping you, are you just looking for approval to date someone with a child, or are you chasing single mothers?

>>33656917
>and you are volunteering to take care of their kids for them like an actual cuck.
This mentality always grates on my nerves, because it implies stepfathers are useless cucks who don't deserve respect. If a dude dates a single mom and proves himself to be a good father to the kids, isn't it a good thing that those kids have a positive male role model to look up to? Should those kids be punished just because their mom made a mistake in trusting the wrong guy to procreate with? Like it's fine to not want to sign up for that responsibility straight away if it's not for you, but don't peddle this idea that being a stepdad is inherently a bad thing.

>>33657275
>Should those kids be punished just because their mom made a mistake in trusting the wrong guy to procreate with?

This is an extremely generous interpretation of female behavior. You actually believe that line if you heard it for the average stepmom? She realistically knows she could never keep him but did it anyway out of genetic greed to get the best mate or even if she's a straight up idiot who opened her legs that shows poor impulse control.

SHE punished those kids from the jump in creating manipulative leverage and emotionally poisoning her kids against their father or vice versa

Let's be clear, the only acceptable single mom is a widow. That's a situation outside of her control. That's the only time where being a little noble is somewhat respected.

>>33657346

its a modern guys job to try to get in your pants, but ultimately you are the one that lets them in.

>>33656835
They’re fat and have tattoos. They listen to rap music and hip hop. If that’s what you’re into then more power to you, go wild.

>>33656835

If you are someone who can't abstract, and is low mental capacity, then its safe to avoid them.

but if you can read nuance in why single moms are a challenging date and navigate it, go for it.

>>33657346
>SHE punished those kids from the jump in creating manipulative leverage and emotionally poisoning her kids against their father or vice versa
I'm not going to get into this argument because I can already tell you have no interest in having a conversation where you are willing to give any women even the slightest bit of leniency, but I will say this: there is a vast, vast gulf of reasons for single mothers between soul-sucking harpies who have kids specifically to baby trap men and widows who have tragedy thrust upon them. A mother who takes her four year old son out of an abusive household is not a whore who has no self-control. A rape victim who is not allowed to get an abortion because her religious family will not allow it is not operating off "genetic greed". A wife who is abandoned by her husband of six years because he couldn't handle the responsibility of parenthood is not a bitch who deserves what she gets.
I know what you're getting at, I understand you are talking about the women who have kids young (like teenage and early twenties young) with guys who have zero intention of actually settling down with them, and while I don't necessarily believe young mistakes should automatically mean that they should be miserable for the rest of their lives, I do understand why anyone might be leery of getting involved in that situation. But while these women are common, they are not the only types of single mothers out there, and the women who end up alone with children due to men hurting them don't deserve to be treated like common whores.

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For me, despite being very close with a couple. (Only hooked up with 1 of them relax) I chose to not date single mothers solely because of A. She will always prioritize her child rightfully so, that complicates intimacy. B. Highly likely to have Terrible repercussions on the influence of the child's development. You could do everything right and have a good bond but one day she's done and you're gone now that kid is gonna develop in a very messed up way or if you stick around you'll always be resented as the Faux-father. C. I would rather make an heir rather than inherit one. I have no issue with adoption or single mothers I find them very attractive, the issue is I would like to experience my own child befkre I consider another with their own.

>>33657465
>posts outlier whataboutisms that are so rare they might as well be nonexistent

Straight up delusional, go back to /reddit/ with this overly emotional cuck shit.

>>33656835
Only if she has a female daughter (of age) you can groom into a side piece or hopefully a sister wife/thruople

>>33656835
>bad shitty infant years
Those are the best years. By a lot.

>>33657620
The best years are when then can walk till age 7. 5-6 is top tier, they
I’ve you at that age

>>33657275
It's a good thing for the kids and the mother, good for society too. It's a terrible thing for that man, who's sacrificing himself for someone else's kids. You can call him virtuous, you can applaud his sacrifice, but you cannot pretend it's good for him.

>>33656835
They're single for a reason. Don't do it

>>33656835
It really really really depends on the individual circumstance
There are universes between a woman who came out of a years long relationship because the guy gambled all their money away, or became a widow, and a 33 y/o cock carousel bitch with 3 children from 3 fathers

There are less women that will treat you well than there are childless women.

>>33656927
Thor is fictional

>>33657231
People of the future will think that of our current trash

>>33656835
We must be better men boy

>>33657275
Men with low standards are enablers of poor behavior/choices in women, just like the women with low standards enable shitty, narcissistic dudes.
Sure, there are rare cases where it turns out alright and where there isn't much blame to be found (my own adoptive grandpa is one of them), but it's far from an ideal dynamic. Pretending the single mother to stepdad route is a happy ending for society just encourages men and women alike to take unnecessary risks or outright self-destructive choices.

>Should those kids be punished just because their mom made a mistake in trusting the wrong guy to procreate with
Men who avoid single mothers aren't punishing them. They have no obligation to pick up the pieces of a stranger's shattered life, especially not when that damage was self-inflicted.
The kids were punished entirely by their circumstances, fault for which lies squarely with their parents. The dad is typically a piece of shit, but that evidently didn't stop the mom from having his kids. Conversely, if she wisened up and left a shithead, she already did the best she could in the circumstances she found herself in.

>>33657346
I mostly agree with you, but there are some cases where a woman actually does marry the wrong guy and divorces him after she catches him cheating or something.

>>33657649
It's arguably not good for society. The kind of guy who can actually be a loving husband and strong father figure would be likelier to have a stable family and raise good kids if he did so with a biological family and a woman without massive amounts of baggage. Call me heartless, but the apple doesn't tend to fall far from the tree, so spending scarce good men on repairing broken families prolongs the influence of poor dynamics (and genetics) in society.

>>33656835
That's advice for 19 year olds not oldfags like you.

>>33656835
on the plus side its very Christian of you to be a stepfather.

on the negative side it is some bullshit against men and traditional families.

I don't know about you but when I was a kid I didn't want anyone breaking up my parents and fucking my mother. and they tried.

you ARE a cuck, put yourself in the son/daughter's shoes. when we're that age our feelings are tender and not yet numb to life's evil.

as a Catholic, my advice is you have no place in that family. at all. if you justify that with St. Joseph you are trash.

you are posting on 4chan because you're desperate for sex, last thing a fatherless child needs is you around with your urges.

>>33657275
> e it implies stepfathers are useless cucks who don't deserve respect
But they are useless and deserve less than respect. Fucking whore enabling simps

>>33658721
>I don't know about you but when I was a kid I didn't want anyone breaking up my parents and fucking my mother. and they tried.
1. I seriously doubt you were thinking in those terms when you were nine years old.
2. No one is talking about breaking up families. Dating a single mother implies the family is already broken and the biological father is nowhere to be found.

>>33658942
> 1. I seriously doubt you were thinking in those terms when you were nine years old.
Not that poster, but that post tracks for me