My bartender works in a supper slow bar that is attached to a bigger joint. She is very sweet and I can make her giggle. She has never hit me with "oh my BF" or anything like that. I want to ask her out in a polite way. Any tips?//Yes I asked before but want a bit more help//
>>33660767You still can't spell SUPER.
>>33660767Figure out her schedule abstractly to propose an event - hey, I’ve got two tickets to XYZ on (her off day), wanna go? Make it low-pressure and maximum fun. Prepare to be soft-rejected, as her job is to be nice to you. If she doesn’t blow you off or is busy, go to the event and then you can tell her. You can even take someone else to make her jealous (FOMO).However, if she feels you overstep the customer-bartender privilege, game over try again.
>>33660767>I can make her giggle>She has never hit me with "oh my BF"kek, she's just good at her job
>>33661545And I ain't going to change that
>>33661889At least you admit you're supper fucking retarded
>>33661906Yeah. I do be being retarded.
>>33661611It's a place they dont allow tips. So it might just be an excuse to talk to anyone.
You won't do it nigga. You will back out last second.
>>33660767If you want to continue drinking there then don't.Hang out at the bar when her shift ends, if she comes over to hang out with you when she is off and having a shift pour, then maybe go for it. But while she is on the clock, she is literally being paid to be nice to you. If she isn't buying you a drink on the regular then that's probably all it is.
>>33660767I have fucked bartender chicks but she probably is being nice to get tips. You might not enjoy going to the bar anymore if she says no.
>>33667855They only have one bartender per day and close at 8 so that's out.>>33667880They can't take tips but being nice is possible.
>>33667984I think the bartenders I hooked up with were pursuing me to some extent. Can you hang out around the neighborhood of the bar a lot more? Maybe you will run into her outside work or maybe one of her friends will hear that you like her?
>>33660767Also another thing to do is ask out someone else there like her coworker or another regular not really caring if they say no and then she'll know you're looking and single and see if she gets jealous or anything.
>>33668164I have asked around but nothing useful has come out of that.
>>33667984Bar that closes at 8 and doesn't take tips??? What kinda shit ass bar is this? Stick around till close and ask her where's a good place to grab another drink. If she is into you, she may just invite you to grab a drink after she closes down.
>>33668640It's a grocery store bar that pours craft beers from the breweries they sale. So it's half asking out the grocery store cashier.
>>33668673just ask her out and stop being a bitch. You can just quit beer if she rejects you, it makes you fat and grow tits anyway.
I'm going to do it. This nigga need to be gased up!
>>33668673That doesn't change any of the advice I've given you. Enjoy being a lonely loser who drinks at a grocery store.
>>33668933Checked.It's a quiet place and attracts a good crowed. I'll only bother her with the question if the conversation goes as well as usual. Thanks for the advice none the less
Give her a gift and write your phone number on it
>>33669020I am thinking of just giving her my number and letting her decide what to do with it.
>>33668933why is this worse than drinking at a pub?
>>33670277wow what a nice gift a shitty piece of paper with numbers- in the trash immediately. This won't work anymore but for example I once picked up a chick working in a convenience store by asking what music she likes then going and buying her a Metallica cd and slipping my number inside it with a note. Obviously the age of CDs is over so think of some other gift that matches her personality. She'll call you back probably because there is a chance she might get more presents.
>>33670906& I must add I did this the very first time I met her there not be a creep for months returning then did it
