I'm a south asian autistic (diagnosed) manchild raised by emotionally immature and retarded parents and was basically never taught how to care for himself. I fucking hate this shit. im 27 and autistic but my whole life has basically been controlled by my parents since the start and i never got an ounce of independence. my fucking job sucks and worst of all i was told to get into the tech industry.I hate everything. i legit blame my parents for everything and then I realize that in and of itself is literal manchild behavior and whenever i try fixing it I either realize i need money that I dont have or quickly lose motivation to do anything because i have to put effort into it to make a change. I fucking hate this culture man. It also super embarrasses me too because I used to be a huge nationalist type as a kid (fucking cringe).
You're Asian. Do you have extended family members?You have a job. You have money. That's putting you way ahead of the curve already. Why are you complaining? You can walk out the door forever today and be fine.>i legit blame my parents for everythingWhenever I'm about to do something stupid, I remind myself that my parents would totally do that stupid thing and I readjust my actions.>I used to be Important what's in your future. Channel that hate and do something
>>33660981So yeah your parents fucked up your life up until this moment, but now you've realized that and can choose to unfuck it up and learn all those life skills you missed out on
Your blaming your parents is also a feature of you being an autistic manchild, you are just too much of an unaware autistic manchild too realize it. So now that you know, stop with the helplessness, let go, and take your life into your own hands
>>33661959CHANGE IS HARD AND PAINFUL AND IT'S EASY TO GO BACK TO THE WAY THINGS WERE.
>>33661660yeah i know it just really stings and makes me feel embarrassed that i have to learn all this shit this late in life>>33661959i already mentioned this in my 3rd paragraph and am aware of this.
>>33662274Don't worry too much. Once you learn it nobody will know when you learned it. It can be your secret
