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For some reason I could never make them and keep them so I am sentenced to live alone with no social skills and anxiety because I don't trust people. Pleases tell me it's normal and ok to just live alone never connecting with anyone and still be content.
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>>33662964
No it's not normal. Something not being normal doesn't necessarily mean it's bad, but this is one of those cases where it is. You may get by without for a few years but then your human instincts will torment you to get at least someone to talk to everyday, and in case you're wondering 4chan is a terrible surrogate.
If you don't want friends it's probably because the ones you met weren't to your speed, you'll need to find some that will click with you, meet people over a shared interest
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I understand you don't have them going by everything you have ever said
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>>33663009
It doesn't seem possible for me to ever have friends. I will soon be in my mid 20s and everyone already has established friend groups. There is no way for me to meet people and I got nothing to say or to connect over since I lack the life experience.
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>>33663085
Nobody gives a shit
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>>33662964
It's more normal to smoke crack anon...
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My wife has 360 contacts on her phone. I know because I just upgraded it for her.

I have... a taxi service and my dentist. And my wife. Men are not as social.
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>>33662964
>>33663350
This. Women are more social by nature, even the most "antisocial" introvert female nerds I've dated or come across still had like 5-10 friends they always hung out with every single weekend.

It's certainly annoying to have friends, but it helps in the bigger picture.
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>>33663350
Your wife is a "user" and a manipulator. Social my ass, and you're being "used" more than most of them.

There's girls out there who aren't social so stop stereotyping em'
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>>33662964
no

>>33663085
They genuinely don't care. I'm the same age and was in a similar position as you but I made friends by talking to people.
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Not OP but can you go into more detail about the process, what you said, etc.



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