He said he doesn't love me last time we talked, I am sure he can sex from somewhere else and he has friends so why would he text me months later saying stuff like "i am so sorry"i care about you "having mental breakdown but i was not sure if you wanted to hear from me again " i have been sad thinking about us not talking anymore i guess"
>>33664241i dont know nor do i careJust ignore himMaybe you should also block him on your social media.
>>33664241Sounds like he is going through some mental troubles. Based on the information about non reciprocated love, this relationship is/was kinda messed up.
>>33664264Egh still like him but I am loving as opposed to you know so I don't know>>33664266Ok but he has friends
>>33664280I don't want my friends to be an emotional blanket for me. Some of them are dickheads. As for those who aren't dickheads, it's inappropriate for me to use them. I mean, a friend right now is acting worried about me and to some extent I don't think that's healthy, but I suppose it's my responsibility for confiding in her.Your ex boyfriend might be thinking, or has just fallen into a pattern where, if he gives someone the dicking, that will release chemicals that will make them love or at least tolerate him well. He's not necessarily that calculated, and this might just be how his behavior evolved, but these emotionally unstable types often are calculated if they're telling you they don't love you but they want you to be their support blanket.
>>33664318I kinda hear you but what do you mean by>these emotionally unstable types often are calculated if they're telling you they don't love you but they want you to be their support blanket.Wouldn't it be the opposite logically or am I being stupid
>>33664241>having mental breakdownHe lost any chance of a reply with this line.For his sake don't respond
>>33664330I guess it doesn't matter whether he's putting you through this out of mindless desperation or a more calculated thing. There are both kinds of people. Some examples of the more calculated type include people who lie unnecessarily. But what's more important whether this relation is having a net good or bad effect on you. I know it's hard because being alone or being in interactions that make you feel alone is tough. This kinda existential despair makes us want to adapt ourselves to relationships with people who can't freely love us because of incomptabiltiies or stuff that's going on. I suspect it's a dark aspect of the human experience that people don't talk about and just cope with by not needing no man and so forth.
>>33664332Why
He thought he would have better chances but is in a terrible dry spell and figures some pussy is better than no pussy. Men will circle back on you even after a horrible messy breakup or not talking to you for almost multiple years if they think there is a chance they can hit. If you find yourself reading into an "I miss you text", remember he just wants sex from you. There is no hidden explanation you were not so special he still pines after you and weeps into his pillow. He wants to fuck
>>33665807Well he is dorky but he is still not ugly so he would have found someone else to sex?
>>33665818That doesn't mean anything these days one of the biggest fuckboys I've ever met was a programmer
>>33665837Yes therefore he could get another woman by that logic especially one who lives closer
>>33665842Even fuckboys have dry spells
>>33665852Kek you really think it is all a larp for that? Egh I like chilling at his place and he is cute and not annoying so I guess I will take might even get him to ride his face, but it will be awkward since you know I am actually loving
>>33665867Whatever you have to tell yourself to not feel used but personally I don't fuck exes just a boundary/self respect thing
>>33666017Who else am I supposed to fuck you understand it is hard. Well you really think he will never love me huh
>>33664241Probably because he cares about you despite not wanting to fuck you or have a relationship with you. Just because he broke up with you doesn't mean he hates you.
>>33664241>>33664280Clearly he values something he got from you that he doesn't get from his friends. He misses the feeling he got from you.Nothing wrong with reconnecting if you want to. If it's upsetting you, then don't. Just be careful.
>>33665795He just told you he is a nutcase and has no life. If you still want him, tell him to come back when he's done with this phase.
