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Lots of matches but ghosted 09/15/25(Mon)06:37:55 No.33666101

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Lots of matches but ghosted Anonymous 09/15/25(Mon)06:37:55 No.33666101 Archived

What’s going on? Of all the matches only 5% initiate a conversation

Anonymous
09/15/25(Mon)06:47:30 No.33666116

Anonymous 09/15/25(Mon)06:47:30 No.33666116

Bots, people swiping right on everything, not checking the app for a few days. Many possibilities. It's a numbers game, keep at it.

Anonymous
09/15/25(Mon)06:51:30 No.33666120

Anonymous 09/15/25(Mon)06:51:30 No.33666120

>>33666116
Thanks anon
But even guys that asked for my phone number just don’t send messages or ask to hang out?? Maybe I’m too online?

Anonymous
09/15/25(Mon)08:27:12 No.33666286

Anonymous 09/15/25(Mon)08:27:12 No.33666286

Are you a woman?

Anonymous
09/15/25(Mon)08:34:42 No.33666295

Anonymous 09/15/25(Mon)08:34:42 No.33666295

>>33666101
you're giving them the "ick"

Anonymous
09/15/25(Mon)10:59:43 No.33666639

Anonymous 09/15/25(Mon)10:59:43 No.33666639

>>33666120
you are a backup, maybe one day you will get your chance

Anonymous
09/15/25(Mon)11:07:05 No.33666658

Anonymous 09/15/25(Mon)11:07:05 No.33666658

>>33666639
It’s le over
How do I get myself out of the backup zone

Anonymous
09/15/25(Mon)11:21:42 No.33666695

Anonymous 09/15/25(Mon)11:21:42 No.33666695

>>33666101
>woman experiences what it's like dating as a man for 10 seconds
>freaks the fuck out
lmao

Anonymous
09/15/25(Mon)11:58:46 No.33666788

Anonymous 09/15/25(Mon)11:58:46 No.33666788

>>33666658
look hotter than the competition? If you can't look hotter than polish that good old personality of yours.

I once told a 9 no to go with her 8 friend because the friend was much cooler

Anonymous
09/15/25(Mon)12:12:56 No.33666850

Anonymous 09/15/25(Mon)12:12:56 No.33666850

>>33666101
Any guy that matches with you will naturally have a plethora of his own matches following the logic behind the matching algorithm especially if you think they’re mids. Meet guys irl, I promise that actual creeps are few and far between.

Anonymous
09/15/25(Mon)12:38:55 No.33666923

Anonymous 09/15/25(Mon)12:38:55 No.33666923

>>33666850
>Meet guys irl
Where
Every time I go outside all men have gfs

Anonymous
09/15/25(Mon)13:33:56 No.33667050

Anonymous 09/15/25(Mon)13:33:56 No.33667050

>>33666101
I won't read kike-app-addled threads. They're totally delusional and drink from a kike tainted cup.

Anonymous
09/15/25(Mon)14:24:18 No.33667215

Anonymous 09/15/25(Mon)14:24:18 No.33667215

>>33667050
Sir basedalot

Anonymous
09/16/25(Tue)07:20:58 No.33670601

Anonymous 09/16/25(Tue)07:20:58 No.33670601

>>33667050
Despite that you bumped my thread :)

Anonymous
09/16/25(Tue)09:34:01 No.33670978

Anonymous 09/16/25(Tue)09:34:01 No.33670978

>>33666101
Cold-calling salesmen consider themselves expert if more than 1% of their tries succeed

Anonymous
09/16/25(Tue)10:42:54 No.33671200

Anonymous 09/16/25(Tue)10:42:54 No.33671200

>>33670978
Thank you
So as long as you get matches it’s just a numbers game
Jeez
Dating shouldn’t be like this

Anonymous
09/16/25(Tue)11:02:24 No.33671274

Anonymous 09/16/25(Tue)11:02:24 No.33671274

>>33666101
you are gay and/or being chadfished