So my gf started gaining weight due to birth control either giving her PCOS, or I guess flaring it if she already had it beforehand. We've been trying to get her to lose weight with diet and exercise to no avail. It has severely crushed our sex life to the point we fuck probably once every 2-3 months. She doesn't get wet anymore, complains about sucking me off, complains her arm hurts even to jerk me off, won't let me cum on her face or tits because it is "degrading", but she somehow let her exs or others do it in the past when she was younger, full of energy, and of course skinnier. Now, she's never cheated on and cooks, cleans, and treats me like a king outside of the sex. She's very supportive and during covid even stood by myside when she had every chance to leave me over my insane family overreacting to the virus at the time. As the days go by I have fallen into a spiral of talking to 18-20 year olds on snapchat to sext to get off. I met one who showed me nudes, told me she wants to be with me, would let me do what I want sexually, would move to be with me, etc. It sounds to good to be true but we video chatted and confirmed it was her and real. Snapchat girl is hotter than my current gf, and said she could save and plan to move in 5 months. I feel like this may be a case of the grass is greener, but my current relationship already feels like it's going to nosedive eventually. What should I do?
Break up with your current GF. What you have done is considered cheating unless you guys discussed it ahead of time and she was cool with it. She deserves to have the same freedom you already do by cheating. You can explain that you started cheating because she gained weight and stopped putting out, but you should just know that it still makes you a jerk for cheating. In the future, you should just talk to your partner about that shit before you cheat.Also, you guys aren't married, so I don't really care about whether you preserve the relationship or not from a moral standpoint. Some people might think you should stay together for whatever reason, but I say just cut the cord now and save yourselves trouble of prolonging what is obviously not a committed relationship.
>>33669292Tell your women she is failing in her duties by not helping you with your biological urges. If she continues to do this, you both will have to separate. I imagine the birth control has been doing this, although I could be wrong. It affects the way you think after all.
>>33669322>her dutiesThey ain't married. There's no "duty" here.
>>33669361>They ain't married.In a world where you can easily get a divorce and there's no positives for being married, I would have to disagree.
>>33669292get her ozempic
>>33669384Doesn't that have severe side effects too?
>>33669292Break up.PCOS is high testosterone condition in women.Basically you're fucking a man, which is gay.OCP is just masking the problem by pumping more estrogen into her blood, instead of lowering the testosterone.
How do you honestly lose weight with this shit or is she fucked?
>>33670534So she's basically going to be fat from now on and never be able to give me a non autistic kid?
>>336692921. Tell her that you love her but you're not satisfied and you don't want to continue living like this 2. Where the fuck do you simply "meet" 18-20yos to sext with on Snapchat? The fuck?
>>33670534Kek'd>>33670546Eat less, obviously. No excuses
>>33670557>2. Where the fuck do you simply "meet" 18-20yos to sext with on Snapchat? The fuck?Quick add. You'd be amazed at the amount of bored suburban women there looking for a good time.
>>33670564Interesting, but realistically if that's how they spend their free time I have 0 interest. Casual sex is the devil's work
>>33670570>Casual sex is the devil's workI mean, it doesn't have to be casual sex just talk and see if they're interested in dating or whatever.
>>33670561don't listen to this dumbassif you have pcos you can eat nothing but nuts and still gain weight,its a hormine issue. nothing to do with weigt, cico wont do shit
>>33670598Yeah, she only eats one meal a day. When she fasted for a week she lost like 20 or the 40 lbs, but it al came back once she went back on one meal per day regimen.
>>33669292>won't let me cum on her faceWhy do you want to do that?
>>33670604Because I'm horny and want to have fun in the bed room?
It’s fucking overYou just know she’d lose weight for Chad tho
>>33670651I don't know, I started lifting over the years and like I mentioned got attention from younger girls. She sees this when we go out and it barely lights a fire under her ass. She only went to a doctor because I threatened to leave her.
>>33670654drop her you think it's kindness to keep her around but it's gonna be cruelty
>>33669292>cooks, cleans, and treats me like a kingnice. keep her.get a side bitch. be smart about it and don't get caught. if that's not an option, go see a whore once in a while to blow off some steam. shop around and try to find one that's your type and not too expensive.
>not a single reply suggesting she get off birth controlThat’s literally the cause of your problems. The cheating is on you
>>33669312I agree, you don't owe each other anything. Unless you really liked her but you're already cheating on her so you don't care that much. I don't even want to judge you, I just think you'll have more peace of mind by dumping her. My only suggestion is to be nice about it when you break up, no one wants to be shamed for a hormonal issue they can't really control.
>>33670845She did get off of it but she just refused to go see a doctor when normal dieting and lifting wasn't working. >>33670654
Ooh its gonna be so nice when you guys break up and she loses the weight and you regret every decision you made.women do less sexually when they aren't satisfied with the relationship just saying.
>>33673757Or when they're too satisfied.
>>33669292yeah just break up with her dude
