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If I dislike a woman's friends (i.e. they're loud, whorish, ratchet, stupid, etc.), I shouldn't have any long-term plans to make her my girlfriend right? Even if I enjoyed the sex with her and some of the time we spent together. After all, I've heard that women are all mirrors of their friends (while this is not necessarily true with men) and seeing her around them, and spending time with them, made me feel very tired and disoriented.
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>>33670229
>mom fat, she'll be fat
>friends whores, she'll be a whore (she'll be going out and partying and then one time she'll drink too much and it's over)
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>>33670229
entirely dependent on how much she likes you
my girlfriend dropped a couple of her friends the moment they tried to shit talk me
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>>33670261
>she'll be going out and partying and then one time she'll drink too much and it's over
This is what I'm afraid of. I do not like going out with them, because they act like tweens(drinking and smoking weed all the time as activities). My gf is 27, I'm 36, her best friend is 27 and a shit influence, and the rest of the group is 18-21 year olds working dead end wagie fast food jobs. I constantly tell my gf they are bad influences and she needs to mature if she seriously wants me to marry and give her kids.
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>>33670229
If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends.
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>>33670285
Grim how true this is 20+ years later.
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>>33670229
you need to fuck the womans friends, she probably bragged about you when times were good to them and women are cut throat bitches to other women. It's the best thing to do.
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>>33670229
My ex's friends didn't like me (and vice versa).

I would suggest you break it off now. It's not worth the aggravation.
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>>33670229
They all have that friend.
My wifes got 2 friends, one I despise and if asked would quickly help hide her body, one I love-hate. (Shes a frumpy miserable judgemental bitch but desu shes funny sometimes and will give the shirt off her back if you actually need help).

Theyre not generally an issue. If anything they help. The first mentioned woman gets herself into all kinds of toxic abusive bullshit relationships and is herself a total trainwreck. Makes me look like a saint, and our lives look amazing by comparison. A quote I saw on some outlet thats very true: "The best thing that ever happened to me is my wifes best friend married an asshole." Lots of value in having people to look down on around you.
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>>33670229
>Look mom, I posted it again!
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>After all, I've heard that women are all mirrors of their friends (while this is not necessarily true with men) and seeing her around them, and spending time with them, made me feel very tired and disoriented

A woman needs to have female friends. If she has male friends and is one of those "one of the guys" chicks she will definitely be fucking at least one on the side. If a woman has no friends, she'll just be desperate for the INEVITABLE male attention she'll get when some desperate thirsty male slides in from work or school or in her DMs. I'd go so far as to argue that her current whorish female friends are better than no friends or male friends.
The hens need other birds to cluck away with. Get your GF around better company but don't force the issue right away.
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>>33670229
>I've heard that women are all mirrors of their friends (while this is not necessarily true with men)
exact opposite is true. men usually have their friends because they like some aspect of them, women hate their friends and don't want to be like them at all
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>gf and the 3 (single and internally jealous) girl friends are 4 drinks in
>why are you with anon anyway, he's such a loser. Don't u just wanna have fun sometimes? Isn't that guy over there cute?
Repeat every other week until gf gets too drunk, convinced and cheats
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>>33671597
Thats not always the case. If you date a woman with any sort of spine and character they'll stop hanging with those women. And keep em around for tea.
Ive dated both types. 2 like Im describing one like youre describing. And in absolute hindsight, they aren't hard to spot. If your woman does what youre describing then there were a million signs in tbe first place shes a weak unfit partner, and you were only with her in the first place out of convenience.
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You can play it humorously, test each of them, identify the ones that you like, support them, see where it all goes.
Don't be an asshole, make it all fun and good natured.
As in being a good influence on the people around you.
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Before I dumped her, my ex's best friend apologized to me one on one for her friend's behavior and told me I deserved better. That was very cool of her.
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>>33672597
When I dumped my ex, all her friends villainized me, even though I was literally being psychologically abused.
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>>33670229
HI, my name is mustafa and i like american gerls <3
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>>33671135
>The first mentioned woman gets herself into all kinds of toxic abusive bullshit relationships and is herself a total trainwreck
lol my gf's best friend was dating a literal methhead, and kept running back to the guy until the cops had to arrest him for breaking and entering.
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>>33672740
My condolences. At least you never have to deal with them again.
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>>33670229
every girl has a slutty friend, kinda like how every man has a retarded friend



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