and of going to work every day. The few seconds of pleasure are not worth spending 9 hours slaving away. At least if I had a more younger and prettier partner it would make working more bearable. Should I dump her and become a neet? I really want to be a neet so bad.
>>33671064Hmmm, alright.
>>33671064>moids are human be-ACK!!
>>33671064I'm also in your shoes and it's pretty fucking grim. Getting a job and living with a neurotic below average woman made me realize this whole contract sucks and that modern marriage is just slavery for men.
>>33671105Kill yourself, nasty fat bitch
>>33671138What a retarded picture. ISIS were a fucking death cult.
>>33671064Cohabitating with a woman and then realizing that you basically just let your dick sign a lease that you want out of it is a pretty horrible time.You can dump her without shooting yourself in the foot and becoming a NEET, anon. It's not going to be easy, though.
But what is a neet?
>>33671987Not employed or seeking education or training.
>>33672000How the fuck do they live life then? Rent is astronomical rn and mortgages too. Groceries are expensive, LIVING is expensive. How do they live without having a job/money?
>>33672016They live with their parents, typically. That's the only way it happens here, at least.Some Yuros get paid living wages by their governments to be NEETs.
>>33672129And their parents don’t care? That’s so wildThe government pays them to be worthless ???
>>33671143> Kill yourself, nasty fat bitchHe believes there are women on this website xDDD stupid retarded summer child, skibidi toilet Ohio rizz your way out of here fr
I'm in this situation and it sucks. I'm sorry but there is no easy way out.1) tell her it's over and that she needs to move - morally correct choice but you will be cohabiting with an ex who might be angry at you, esp if you were supporting her financially, and might do something stupid (break your stuff)2) secure another place where to live, move out when she's not home, call her and tell her it's over (currently working on this)
>>33672135Wow, your self esteem must be in the the basement.
>>33671064Yeah, you should break up. You're supposed to like spending time with your gf even when not having sex
>>33671963>ISIS were le heckin death cult broAnything is better than this shit
>>33671064In the same boat although my (french) partner is fairly attractive but she's just extremely quiet and sensitive. If I even so much as hinted at leaving her, she'd probably end up depressed for the rest of her life and I just can't bring myself to do it to her. She's just too nice and innocent and works very hard but I'm not happy in the relationship at all. She only has her parents and her cat in her life besides me and honestly idk what the fuck to do. We live comfortably though and I'd have a lot to lose besides feeling like a cunt for ruining her mental health.
>>33672133All neets i know either live with their parents or have inherited aparments/houses and rent them out and spend their days drinking beer on a bench somewhere
>>33672133>The government pays them to be worthless ???I don't really get it either. I've spoken to some Scandinavians on here that don't have to work because they have aspergers.
>>33672670Okay wait side question: are incels and meets the same? And if they are how does that work? I thought they never came outside or whatever, that’s their whole bit no?
>>33671987A miserable little pile of secrets.
>>33671064>watching BM while having sex Disgusting, I only watch inuyasha when I make out with my girl
>>33672146How do I stop a man from abandoning me like? This is unironically quite demoralizing
>>33672783Suck his cock at least twice a month.
>>33671064why even date if all u care about is sex? just be a bachelor who hooks up with random tinder whores
>>33672783Don't move in with him right after you start dating him. Don't move in with him until you know you'd marry him, ideally.
>>33671064Anon please for God's sake don't dump and become a neet. You will seriously regret it. Be happy that you can work and have sex. It's just that you got bored and the honeymoon phase is over and now the real life kicks in. Being a wifeless neet is the worst thing that can happen. I crave for both my whole life but the only thing that I got were rejection letters and no love from women at all.
>>33672783Make sure he actually loves you and isn't going through with shit like cohabiting and buying you a ring just because he knows you're going to get pissy if he doesn't.That only makes it more unlikely to happen though. You have to realize most of life is a gamble and eveything can go wrong at any moment. You could die tomorrow or become a tetraplegic at the blink of an eye. Thousands of people die everyday. None of this matters really. You just have to keep living anyway.
>>33673046you have a romanticized view on relationships cuz u never had em, plain and simple
>>33673046Not OP but I used to crave that as well, before I knew the absolute hellish nightmare that is being stuck with a mediocre woman you don't like. Incels don't get this, but it's 100x worse than being alone. I was literally in constant misery until I dumped her.
>>33671064This is why I love prostitutes. When I feel lonely I bang one then get post nut clarity. I only realised that I wanted normie shit because I was watching my friends live a normie life. Once I ghosted them and started living life for me, life got better.I travel to SA or Asia, flirt with the girls there and pretend to date the cutest girl for a week once or twice a year.
>>33672783That's the point of the propaganda, congrats! You fell for it!
>>33672992>tinder whoresNot worth it. I'd rather see prostitutes or pay them to be my gf. 8/10 times the girls on there are shit .
>>33672783Never make the first move, only date men who are obviously very into you, and investing their time and money into being with you. If a man wants you he will let you know. Never play guessing games with men and never let them settle for you.
>>33673067and you have a romanticized view on being a lonely neet cuz u never know the real pain of rotting alone, making love with hand, and earning almost nothing, plain and simple.
>>33672665She sounds like the dream girl for a lot of guys. Go back to how you met , try to rekindle what attracted her to you in the first place
>>33672985Sex only goes so far and is makes you feel worthless if not emotionally involved. Lust is so not worth it>>33673022>>33673064Thanks anons>>33673090Being used and thrown away has changed me in b4 whore yea but I truly didn’t intend to I really could of loved him well
>>33673146You're welcome.If I could undo anything I've done in my life, it would be cohabitating with a woman who only wanted me for sex. I wasted years on that woman.
>>33673083One downside though is that you never feel real love but other than that, pretty cool and asianpilled.
>>33671064I sit in front of a computer for 8-10 hours and go to the gym then eat bland slop and go to bed hoping not to wake up. My parents are still around but not for much longer , after they pass I am not sure what ill do. Im sure Im not alone in this but I just dont see whats the end goal? Never been good with women and even the guys I know that are married seem miserable. where's all that white male privilege I was told I have? Video games stopped being fun a long time ago. Exercise is good but only helps out a little.
>>33671064>Should I dump her and become a neet? I really want to be a neet so bad.Dunno about being a neet, but if you don't even like your gf physically and sex is "a few seconds of pleasure" the relationship has obviously run its course.>>33671138>a neurotic below average womanWhy in the fuck would you ever even consider having sex with one lik ethat, let alone gf her , let alone live with her , let alone enter into any legally binding contracts with. >modern marriage is just slavery for men.No shit Sherlock. Marriage used to be an economic deal between families sorting out their inheritance lines, nowadays it serves exactly zero purpose. What ever motivates retards to do this shit >>33672129>paid living wages by their governmentsIst normally the legal existence minimum aka what you need for rent and food. So I guess double an american minimum wage or something?>>33672133>The government pays them to be worthless ???Yeah because the average office drone is so incredibly valuable while it pretends to fil out excel sheets so master shekelbergstein doesn't chimp out over not getting "his hours". Pure slave mentaility on display, utterly pathetic.>And their parents don’t care? That’s so wildIst called "having loving parents" , dude. Its actually not usual for parents to immediately begin profit extraction immediately and to serve up their children to Shekel Inc. until only the desiccated husks remain once the last dime has been nickeled out.
>>33673173>A woman who only wanted me for sex. I wasted years on that woman.>Wasted
>>33672637then kill yourself
>>33673278Completely wasted, yes. I was a miserable shell of my former self by the end of it.
>>33671064What a brutally damning indictment of the modern dating culture this 'jak is.
>>33672783The only reason men would abandon someone is uf they're more work than it's worth.I left a girl because she wanted me to do the heavy lifting emotional and financial in the relationship. That shit made me miserable. I got nothing back. Relationships go both ways.
>>33673396No, not really. Retards who think that "meh, better than nothing" is an actual basis for a relationship have been around since times immemorial. Where do you think all those boomer jokes about how terribel being married is come from
>>33673390She really sucked you dry eh? Really drained you did she?
damn, i guess the grass truly is greener.i got to my early 30s eschewing relationships and i guess now i got a biological drive to seek a woman. reading these testimonials, knowing that my potential is 5/10 fat chicks, makes me reconsider a bit. the social pressure of being in a relationship is really annoying though.
>>33671064It's your fault for being retarded and getting with a woman you're not attracted to and can't enjoy sex with.
>>33673529Yup, sure did. Terrible experience. I dumped her on Valentine's Day.
>>33673537Yeah fuck it there's no reason to get in these relationships when you're just going to be complaining to strangers about how miserable you are. They might have made themselves ugly/unfuckable but you chose to get with that fat woman or ignored the fact women make themselves fat in these relationships.
>>33672992Why date if you can't maintain your weight or general appearance for the inherently sexual relationship to go smoothly? If you wanted to ignore the sex friends and family already exist. Tinder whores are also usually self made ugly but dirtier on top of it.
>>33673090All these cucks giving advice to self proclaimed "girls"The fuck are you doing helping them? Go to 4chan if you want to hear people who play life on easy mode complain about how hard it is, this is 4chan where the hardcore mode players are and WE need the advice, not the fucking roleplayers!!!
>>33673822Go to Plebbit *
>>33673542Most western women only maintain their physiques until they lock a guy down, then they balloon into whales and laze around.I don't know why they do this.
>>33673210>Why in the fuck would you ever even consider having sex with one lik ethat, let alone gf her , let alone live with her , let alone enter into any legally binding contracts with. Inceldom. I just took what I had available
>>33673387I have to keep living to make women's lives worse
>>33672135There are (non-trannies), but they're all disgusting warpigs
>>33673845Believing this garbage is the first step to tolerating women like this and thus ending up with them.>I don't know why they do this.A certain subset of women just don't genuinely enjoy sex or have been raised to see it only as a tool to tie men down. For this reason, you should rapidly dump any woman who shows any signs of a declining sex drive within the relationship. >>33673857>Inceldom. I just took what I had availableGettign some frump ybitch for sex may be dodgy but understandable in a pinch ( not really, but some guys seem to be like this) . But fucking moving together with her? What the fuck man. Sheer lunacy . You take the experience and move on to greener pastures with improvced confidence. And honestly, I only lost my virginity after 30, yet even at my lowest I would have never considered a woman I was not attracted to , and I am glad I went that way.
>>33673188>. where's all that white male privilege I was told I have?waiting for you to get your shit together and get back on your feet instead of being a woe is me bitch - do white guys really? White privileged kicks off when you take action , if you tall and white THEN U CRYIN for nothin
>>33672783The only times I've thought of abandoning a woman were when she made it unbearable to be around her due to her own behavior, constant negativity, and open contempt for me.'Just be nice to him' works 99% of the time. Unless you want a provider/sugar daddy then he'll abandon you the moment you turn 30 because that's in the terms of the contract when you define yourself by your sexual value.
>>33672783Communication is what is needed to solve all these problems, if you feel like the vibe is if communicate that. She can likely sense what he's feeling yet they both refuse to talk about it allowing the wedge to divide them even more.
