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Story about how I fucked things up with a girl at work
>Start working bar
>Cute girl works at the sex shop next to us
>I cut through often to take smoke breaks outside
>Always really flirty but she's in a skirt so short half her ass is out
>After about a month of this we end up talking more and more and I end up actually liking her
>Her birthday is coming up so I order a cute hello kitty plush for her
>Two weeks ago, come back from two days off to zero interest in her. Completely friend zoned
>"Alright whatever, not the first time it's happened. Let me get her her birthday present and act like nothing ever happened"
>Last Sunday, bullshitting with boss and her coworker while I prep main area.
>Boss mentions he's glad the she wasn't around when the owner came by and was bitching about Charlie Kirk and trans people
>Coworker says yeah that'd be bad cause she trans
>I ask if they're fucking with me, in full disbelief, never having even thought of it
>Get home and drink all night and all next day
I go back to work tomorrow. Her birthday is coming up this week. Wtf do I do? To clarify I have no problems with trans girls, infact I have the opposite of a problem. Im just shocked because I've always thought I was good at being able to tell, even joked with her about how good my gaydar is. I really want this to work out but I'm not sure where to go from here. Reference picture provided
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I mean, nothing's really changes, has it? She's still the same woman, you just have a bigger perspective. Give her the birthday gift, damnit.
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>>33672224
this
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Hurry up and use thoes holes
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Getting a gift for someone you've only known for a month is kinda weird.
>works at the sex shop next to us
That's a huge red flag
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>>33672108
>even joked with her about how good my gaydar is
Use that as an opportunity to say some shit like "holy hell you're incredibly good at being a woman" or some shit!
You can still clutch this broseph
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>>33672108
Troon phantasy.
You shan't pass.
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>>33672108
Give her the gift.
Tell her you like her. (maybe not on the same day as giving the gift)
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>>33672108
>even joked with her about how good my gaydar is

how does this come up with a woman you thought was cis?
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Dude, you said it yourself that you've been freindzoned. Just return the doll and find a girl who's not a smut peddler. Honestly considering her line of work she probably has to make it's seem like she's flirting with creeps all day. Your probably just another faceless perv to her. Do better, have some self respect.
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what the tiktok
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>>33672224
>>33672262
He's a male with XY chromosomes as well as a male skeleton/narrow pelvic inlet and a male brain. You are coping.
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>>33674198
Better advice for OP: Find the girl that's not a dude
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>>33677018
>and a male brain
oh no anything but that!! haha
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>>33677018
Typically when I look for a date I think about them as a person instead of what flavor of genitals I get to eat every night, but you do you pal.
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>>33672108
>I have no problems with trans girls
>In fact the opposite of a problem
Then what's the issue?
>uhhh what if she has a dick uhhh
Doggy.
>uhhhh what if I have to suck her dick uhhhh
Worry about that if you get to it
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>>33672108
Welcome to being gay anon
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>>33672108
Every repost is more boring
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Topkek, imagine falling in love with a trooner. May as well call yourself a fag now, OP.



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