leave him

>>33675208
>not really physically attracted to him not even sure if I would want to have sex with him

Your man will get uglier as he grows older so fuck your appearance kink standards/appearance. If you don't wanna have sex with him then he'll just get hurt hearing that. He'll just get sad if you force it due to his personality so yeah, leave him it's for his sake NOT yours. Men are driven by sexual desires and I am speaking as a man and if you can't satisfy us then its hopeless for a relationship.

Also just because a person's personality meet your standard, you haven't seen them at their WORST (depressed, sad, uncooperative) or at their BEST (cocky, high ego, overconfident etc..)

Personality and Appearance doesn't really meet does it. You need to have both even if one goes down the other you still have other to rely on. But if you have no man or other choice out there, remind you he's the only one you can rely and resort to for better or for worse unless you're willing to change yourself. Foreplay exists to get you horny and willing to have sex with someone. I say its a skill issue for all three here but if its going to be your first experience I say pick the best and since you got no alternatives sooner or later then yeah, he's the only choice you got.

What I say here is pretty contradicting but I gave you all perspectives in broad details.

>>33675208
>I am attached to his personality
Dafuq does this even mean?

>>33675208
If you are attracted to the person inside the packaging, you come to find the packaging attractive. If the packaging is a deal-breaker, there can't be much real attraction to the person inside.

>>33675335
I think she likes his behavior.

>>33675208
Ask him to go to the gym with you and tell him you should both get plastic surgy. Him for his face, and you for your tits. Men, unlike women, are more likely to view such "deals" as a plus. Especially if you explain the fact, you love his personality and how he is in bed, but you don't see anything above the hips as sexy.

>>33675208
kill yourself
you dont love his personality, only the attention he gives you, thats all.

well, if you really like his character, then you can use your "womanhood" to "charm" him and as >>33679237 said in a way, try to influence him in a way, so he might consider going to the gym or in general exercise his body. like a lil nudging him in the direction, giving him a signal.

NOT plastic surgery about the face. the face is the window/makeuop of the soul. one cant really exercise that by force idek
thats a bad idea to say

the question rather is if that really is what you think is the/your problem and when hes more muscular or lean or whatever, if that really changes the attraction