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I have a small submissive kink about my wife being in control of some things. For example she read a book about Japanese marriages in which the wife is in charge of finances and she directly implemented it in our marriage. Meaning I have to show her all my expenses and she writes it down in a book to have an overview. I'm just waiting for the next iteration in which I get a monthly pocket money and all the rest is blocked for me to withdraw. Now that sounds quite bad for many, I'm sure. But for me it's a dream coming true. It drives my libido to the sky, no idea why and honestly I'm fine with it.

She knows that I have a bit of an masochistic kink and sometimes slaps my butt when we have sex but that's about it. She never really questioned it nor paied too much interest and that's totally fine. I know that woman prefer dominant men in bed, which I guess I am... even with the slaps here and there. However, I haven't told her that the financial control turns me on because I think that's really where it gets weird. I'm afraid it makes her uncomfortable or that it changes the way she sees me. On the other hand I would love her to control me in more and other ways as well. The ultimate master-kink would be wearing a chastity device that only she can open. But I wanna take it slow first (if at all) and don't overwhelm her.

Do you have any advices? It would be really awkward to ask her right away I guess.. not sure why but I have this barrier hindering me. I was thinking of doing something like "oh hey look chatgpt says that contolling (X) improves the average relationship by a lot". "Hey have you heard of chastity devices? lmao i didn't know it's so common in married couples.. at least thats what chatgpt is saying because it has some advantages for the wife"

Just writing this feels really weird, please understand.