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I know I’d be a great husband and father if given the chance. All I need and want is just one opportunity to prove myself, why won’t anybody let me?
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>>33678507
> I know I’d be a great husband and father if given the chance.
No, you don’t.

If you have problems attracting women, you obviously don’t have the skills to retain women.

>I want…
Gonna stop you there. In a dedicated relationship, you don’t get wants. You’re now responsible for another person(s)’ well being and need to sacrifice.

To get bitches, you need to tailor yourself to their wants, not your own. THEY want a provider, not that they should provide YOU with anything. If women can’t tell you have this ability (and I’m just talking about the ability to have fun, for starters), you need to send strong signals of providerdom (ie. Expensive clothes, neat appearance)
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>>33678507
because women superficial value over deeper value, lack of critical and long term thinking anon, its not very complex so dont suffer about it
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>>33679147
I’m a pretty normal everyday guy and do all of those things.
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>>33679262
Obviously not.

>But I do X and Y
Not good enough.

I’ll use myself for comparison because I’ve been in a number of fulfilling relationships that youve only dreamed of
>dream = your post
I go to Meijers each week and the cashiers call me Daddy when I buy beer. Another scrambled to bag my groceries after tailing me through the store.
>Im balding and 5’ 8”

At no point in my encounters with these women did I encourage this behavior.

If you are not getting these types of reactions, then you are severely blind to something. Or, you just frequent shit areas - which is also your fault. I purposely go where the women are and let them fantasize.

Now, I’m being harsh as an object lesson. >The real lesson is this:
Men make their own opportunities, some of which by sheer presence. Women smell desperation much in the same way someone would sus out a bad Facebook Marketplace deal. You are not as good as you think you are. You should be undeniable.
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>I know I’d be a great husband and father if given the chance.
If you had a father figure who modeled good behavior you wouldn't be begging for the opportunity here.
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>>33678507
Forget women, 80% don't care. Try this instead.
https://completesurrogacy.com/surrogacy-options-for-single-men-in-usa/



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