Hey anonsCome to /adv/ today to talk about something weighing on me a little bit.There's this nerdy girl I know online who I've been talking to for a little bit now, but as a friend. Recently we've become more involved and she wants to meet up in person and hang out and stuff like that. We're in the same country.The reason why I've come here is that... I'm not really in any state to do anything like that, but I don't want to let her down.I:- am older than 21 but younger than 25- do not live on my own, but have a sort of(?) functioning connection with parents- have no job; can barely get myself up in the morning- don't eat a great amount of variety of foods or very healthily (despite being a pretty slim build and a little underweight I don't eat a lot) so my semen is likely to taste bad- have never met up with anyone i've known online before and they have, but also don't really know how to make myself look presentableWe're planning on seeing each other in town at the start of October, so I have a bit of time to prepare and get some living habits in order so I wanted to kind of ask reallyI obviously know the basics like wearing clothes that fit, washing well and brushing my teeth and hair (shoulder length) and stuff but beyond that I don't really... Know if there's anything else to consider.I'm a pretty big shut in I don't interact with many people at all or leave my house muchPicrel... I guess I'm like her?
>>33680056just be normal, whatever that is to you. youll think all of this is stupid when you actually talk to her. get into the habit of getting that good hygiene down so at least your skin and hopefully hair doesn't look terrible. >so my semen is likely to taste badwoah that came out of nowhere, i guess you're planning to fuck? well at least wear a rubber. you'll also need money to rent a hotel or something unless you wanna do that at your parent's. really you should be discussing this stuff with her, if it's someone you're considering the taste of your cum for it's someone worth talking about your anxieties with
>>33680181op herere: semenyeah it did come out of nowhere it's something we've discussed, she wants to do it but im not reallly super sure about it specifically because i don't have much money on me to book a hotel for us and stuff. I have condoms though. Is the whole thing about semen smelling bad if you eat junk food and stuff actually true?re: first bityeah I'll do what i can i guess. It's pathetic that im talking like this but i just don't want to let her down
>>33680056How old is the girl?
>>3368041219 so a few years younger than me but shes definitely more experienced than me in all that stuff
>>33680056>I'm not really in any state to do anything like thatstop being a bitch nigga.>but I don't want to let her down.you are doing women a disservice by rejecting them. You should be more welcoming of women who find you attractive.>am older than 21 but younger than 25this only matters if the girl is a minor or is illegal to have connections with in your country.>have no jobit is okay at this age, but definitely start trying to get one. What kind of self-respecting man has no income, even small? Go find some work so you can earn a check and spend it with her. How are you to buy her treats/food/gifts when she does come over? Think about it weirdo.>so my semen is likely to taste badthe fuck? So you are just overthinking shit now. (Also, drinking 1L of pure pineapple juice a day or two, maybe even hours before will be enough to change it by the way). Worry about your presentation, think about what made her attracted to you first. The sex will come later. But definitely fix your diet and exercise routine. Even running or jogging some distance a couple times a week is enough to start the change.>have never met up with anyonedon't act differently than how you attracted her online. Be presentable with hygiene and fashion and manners. Be a man and protect the girl when she is with you as you are now responsible for her safety. Have a plan ready when the day inevitably comes but be open to changes. That's all.>I'm a pretty big shut in I don't interact with many people at all or leave my house muchThere's also plenty of advice on YouTube and Tiktok. Study up. But really, try to get some money before that so you can actually do something fun with her- go on a trip and see something together. If things work out, go get a hotel room for later and be a man. The goal is to make her feel like a woman- but you have to be the MAN first. You can't be that if you are relying on her to pay or plan shit etc. Do things you want- then include her in it. Decide for her.
>>33680829>drinking 1L of pure pineapple juice a dayNTA, but this will make your teeth fall out. The Bromelain will damage your gums.
>>33680056NEET here. I've done online meetup with friends mostly guys but I've also dated with girls.The advice I can give you is tell the person everything about you or what to expect of you right beforehand. This would shatter their own expectations of you so they won't get disappointed. This is why its important to introduce yourself in every social meeting. The feeling of disappointment is far greater than feeling embarrassed because embarrassment can easily be forgotten and overridden compared to their own expectation created by their own thoughts. This way you won't feel down or uncomfortable with them as you feel like yourself at all times.If you can send a picture of you to her or do a video call whatever comfortable. An old school photo or an ID photo that somehow looks good for yourself or least embarrassing. You don't wanna make it look like a blind date or meetup either.> have no job; can barely get myself up in the morningDon't feel embarrassed about having no job yet at the start of the relationship. It's a good start that someone wants to talk and interact with you despite being nothing but be prepared for the worst in any case. If she ever brings this issue between both of you then its best to drop someone like that so soon. If you can have get yourself laid then that's all that matters at this stage.
