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I don’t really have many close friends outside of family, but a few months ago I met a guy online. We clicked pretty fast, talked every day, and got close enough to where he opened up about some personal stuff.
Eventually we met in person, but things didn’t go as planned. I still thought it went fine, but afterwards he started acting distant and critical. Since then, he’s either ignored me or given short replies.
It feels obvious he’s not interested in being friends anymore, but part of me still hopes things could go back to how they were. I haven’t reached out in two weeks to give him space, but I keep wondering if he’ll eventually come back if I just wait.
Should I hold onto that hope, or just accept that it’s over?
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>>33680151
He wanted you romantically
Either reciprocate or move on. It's that simple. If you "click" and open up about personal stuff, that's called compatibility doofus.
Obviously if you're in a relationship, just let it die. But if you're vibing and single, maybe be brave enough to acknowledge something more might be there. If not, please save the guy the trouble and again let it die.
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No, very unusual for people to come back around, especially if it's already been 2 weeks.
The only time I might hold hope for something like that is after an argument that you know for a fact that you're correct, and that you know they aren't retarded.
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If you're a whore that likes to lead people on you can expect the guy to have realized it, if he has a functioning brain he won't even think about you.
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>>33680151
It’s over. You probably did something that put him off. I had a similar situation where I thought a girl was into me (until she mentioned having a boyfriend) so I tried being friends with her but she was kinda bad at that so I just ghosted her and moved on. Idk what kinda impression I had on her because she messaged me out of the blue a year later (I forgot she even existed lmao)
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>>33682119
> Idk what kinda impression I had on her because she messaged me out of the blue a year later (I forgot she even existed lmao)
That's your queue to arrange a situation where you two can have sex, ASAP, boyfriend or not.



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