my ex is my first boyfriend, first love and everything. I was his first everything as well and we have known each other since childhood so it’s a really special and intense feeling. I always thought he was attractive and cool, and I wasn’t really like him, he used to be really confident and he would get in some trouble as well despite being super smart! Anyway, long story short, we broke up some months ago because I wasn’t feeling loved or appreciated enough and he just took of everything that mentioned that he had a gf in his social media.But I love him, I want Him! It’s supposed to be HIM! He’s my first and only boyfriend I will ever have, I can’t move on. My dad told me I will always remember him because he is my first love, but that doesn’t sound any better, I wish I could have him forever or just forget his existence so I wouldn’t feel bad like this. So I tried to message him again, asked him if we could talk, he replied with«yes of course!» and I started my whole paragraph talking about how much I miss him and our plans, how much I love him and how no one is better than him and how I’m the only one who gets him and he’s the only one who gets me. But after all that, I decided to go to sleep so I could wake up with his replies, and I think im blocked ???? So I panicked and tried other socials, I’m not blocked in the other ones so I tried to message him again, and guess what? I stalked him a little bit in an alt account and he’s following a new girl. He’s not the type to have female friends, and he didn’t blocked my account there either, idk why he would keep me if he’s with someone else. So I decided to talk to him tmrw if he doesn’t reply my messages. And I will stab him/srs. I’m not joking, I tested some stuff on myself to see if it would hurt, and I think it’s ok, just as a warning I guess. I will follow him since I know his routine and the way to his home! He’s not the type to call the cops on me.
>>33680164Bait
>>33680164It was like that too with my first gf. You have to treat them like they’re dead and find someone else
>>33680164It would be cool if you did. Try it, I would like that to happen to me. Just don't be too clingy or emotional, or shit test him too much.Worse case scenario you will have to bear through a heart break so avoid going full speed so as not to harm yourself too much in case shit breaks. Also it's much easier for girls provided you are reasonably cute and not a total psycho.I've tried for 28 years, and after a decade I managed to have some contact despite probably sounding absolutely ridiculous. I tried everything to forget her with a degree of success until the rug was pulled under me (lost job, family, friends, house, adding to that the death of closed ones).My head led me right back to her. And now I have to build my whole life back up, knowing she's probably toying with me or not caring or fucking all kinds of men. But guess what similarly to you, I like someone and maybe I'll forget and find someone else with whom I can spend my life with. Or maybe there are exceptions, and I somehow end up back with her, hell I like rare stuff.Take your chances, at least you will have told yourself you tried. Just don't break if things get bad.
>>33680164If you love him, you should have tried to work things out with him instead of immediately breaking up with him, stupid fucking bitch.
>>33682931Nah, relationships can be hard, and there are no exact rules hence trial and error is part of them. People can choose to pursue and be better if that's important to them or change tracks if it's too painful.
>>33683091Immediately ejecting/giving up on something when there's adversity is a sign of being a baby back bitch with no character. The fact that she regrets it reinforces the fact she's a fucking idiot.
>>33683115Don't know how long they were together. Quite frankly I bet they are relatively young, I am not making fun of them by calling them little bitches.Op was probably insecure, but that shit happens to everyone, it was probably expressed in ways that lacked time and space for proper decision making.
>>33683148>I am not making fun of them by calling them little bitches.Don't worry, I did it for you.
>>33687090That's just you being an ass. It doesn't bring anything nor help anyone, rough treatment doesn't work on sensitive people.
