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Is cheating worth it just once if you think you can get away with it
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Only if you're right. Also, no stop being stupid.
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>>33680499
>Is cheating worth it just once if you think you can get away with it
Nah, you'll forever regret it, I've read countless men and womens shared stories etc on regretting cheating. The ones who say they don't regret are either sociopaths/psychos/narcissist/etc. You just want to feel alive op. Go to a national park and near the ocean to feel better. Have hate sex with your gf/wife
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>>33680499
>don't go all in while you're single
>settle for someone out of fear of being alone
>now you're unhappy AND shackled
way to go, OP
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cheating is the best, esp. when it's really naughty like with a black guy
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>>33680499
No. Never. Kill yourself, now!
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>>33680499
Yes, always. The thrill is totally worth it.
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>>33680499
>Is cheating worth it

Only if you're sexually frustrated and trapped in a passionless relationship
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Your partner may never find out but I will always remember
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I cheated once and it was by far the worse sex i've had. Maybe if the sex was great then it may have been worth it.
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>>33680499
You can’t get away with it,
Because the LORD sees all things.
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>>33680539
>The ones who say they don't regret are either sociopaths/psychos/narcissist/etc.
This is a very Disney way of looking at life.
It depends why anon wants to cheat.
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>>33680499
Avoid it.. Truth is relationships are hard.. I had never cheated before and the girls eventually left me because either I was usually too nice.

I cheated once after a long time in celibacy, more so because I started to feel she was slipping away again. But it didn't work and left me paranoid. Strangely enough, this relationship lasted somewhat longer before shit hit the fan.

Now I want a relationship, for some reason spending my life without someone sounds dreadful despite having before lived years without a girlfriend and doing okay.
However I realize I would be really lucky to find someone cute enough and reasonably beautiful to bear with my somewhat broken being as I am picking up pieces, and I would need to be led at first which may be risky.

In any case, you do you but try not to do what would fuck too hard with your conscience, it's a lot of suffering afterwards and it doesn't wear off as easily as just being dumped.
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>>33680499
No.
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>>33680499

That feeling of sexual insatiability is just a fact of life. It doesnt go away because you got away with fucking some broad. It just comes back the same if not worse.

So in effect youre not actually fixing anything. Just laying landmines in your life.

You must understand this feeling you *have to* do it is just your dick making a case. You dont have to. Youre not dying.
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I had a gf I cheated on constantly before and more after we became LDR. One day I met a woman I'd give up that relationship for, and broke up with that gf. This woman was directly from my dreams. Perfect. Actually a 10/10, a white girl, I've never been able to have one before (I'm white). She broke up with me and now I have no one. I think I placed all my hope in this new woman and I thought breaking up with my gf was inconsequential, but in a way I think it was there festering in the back of my mind with another both trauma and scared off the new woman in ways I could'nt control. This woman thought I was a man-whore, and although she fucked like a slut herself, I think it both intrigued her and turned her off to something long term, which is what I wanted.
Don't lie to yourself
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>>33681818

All in all, once things get screwed, is it possible at all to get a new long lasting and reasonably healthy (and at least a little physical) relationship with the opposite sex in your opinion??

I am in this abyss where all I'd like is a sincere yes or no..
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>>33680499
yep it's worth it. although you have to *know* you can get away with it
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>>33680499
No, and fuck you.



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