Maybe this is an American thing. In my home country, you’ll sometimes see women pursuing men they like. But here, it’s almost unanimously agreed that women never pursue, only men do that. And this is a progressive country. My last gf was Latina and she was basically throwing herself at me but I had to wait 5 years before meeting her. I’ve since had no luck purely because I keep having to initiate with barely any effort from the other side. The last girl I talked to would just keep staring at me instead of saying hi or telling me to fuck off like a normal human being so I kept having force myself to initiate while being anxious if she liked me or not.
>>33680744What fucking country?I'm America it has become so rude to as much as seek to a women that it's impossible to take a risk with them.
>>33680744Nobody needs to "forgive" that women naturally have 100x less testosterone than men, this hormone (that is also largely responsible for making men the violent/aggressive gender) or more like the lack of it is the reason, and it should be a good thing unless you're a complete lunatic.
>>33680744>My last gf was Latina and she was basically throwing herself at me but I had to wait 5 years before meeting herwhat
>>33680744Society does not "forgive" passivity in women; society *demands* passivity in women. If they aren't passive, they are slut-shamed.
>>33680744>The last girl I talked to would just keep staring at me instead of saying hi or telling me to fuck off like a normal human being so I kept having force myself to initiate while being anxious if she liked me or notWhy are women like this? Like genuinely, why are women like this? They basically never flirt. Ever. When I say that women get upset and say they do flirt, and then I ask them to describe themselves flirting, and every single time they're not actually flirting, they're just trying to signal that they're open to being flirted with. And how do they do that? By doing things indistinguishable from kindness -- eye contact, asking you about your day, making conversation about your interests, things of that sort. They'll do this and then they get upset when men ask them out or hit on them ("How DARE that creep do that! I was just being nice! Why are men like this!") but they also get upset when men don't ask them out or hit on them ("why doesn't anyone approach me. why doesn't anyone ask me out. I'm sending out hints all the time I'm so sad") so it's all just fucking maddening. They legitimately want you to be able to read their minds.
Women can and will pursue men they find attractive, even in America. They will take the guesswork out and make it very easy for you. If this isn't happening for you, then newsflash faggot most women aren't finding you attractive. The problem in first world western countries, especially America, is that women' standards have been raised to astronomical levels thanks to decades of psychic mindfucking by social media, dating apps, and reality TV. So many women out there think they're mini-celebrities and won't "settle" for ordinary dudes anymore. The ones that are willing to go for ordinary guys get wifed up pretty quickly. In fact, it's getting easier to fuck married women then single women, because those married women might have ended up with hubbies that can't fuck and they just want some side dick. Meanwhile single women are still holding out hope for the 6'5" billionaire fashion model with a 10 inch dong, and are willing to get pumped and dumped by those kinds of guys instead of "settling".
>>33684187yep this is the answer. after age 12 people are absolutely brutal to women bluntly indicating interest in public
>>33684187>>33685196Absolute deluluNo one has ever been mad at a woman who expresses her interest in a guy for long term dating purposes.The problem is, you're worried about "slut shaming" because you know in the deepest depths of your cunts that you'd honestly ever pursue the top single digit percentage of sexually attractive men. The same men all of "society," i.e. your fathers, mothers, brothers, chaste female friends, true alpha males in your life, etc. tell you will just pump and dump you.You even know this in your heart of hearts. And yet you do it anyway. Because sorry, YOU are a slut. Not every woman who goes after a man is one, but you, who will repeatedly and willingly be the cumsock for Chad, Brad, Jamal, and Tyrone, knowing they're not gonna be there when you wake up, are a fucking slut.
>>33681229>I'm America>rude to as much as seek to a womenGo home and get yourself a jeeta , white women will never like you Sukdeep
>>33680744>I have to... talk.. to women...?>AAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHThere's like 5 threads on the board right now about this.And most of the time the guys are absolutely inane conversation killers that always make it about themselves and never actually getting to know girl normally, and/or treating it like a job interview.
>>33685984>Because sorry, YOU are a slut. Not every woman who goes after a man is one, but you, who will repeatedly and willingly be the cumsock for Chad, Brad, Jamal, and Tyrone, knowing they're not gonna be there when you wake up, are a fucking slut.I am a Nice Stable Guy.txt
>>33685984>you're worried about "slut shaming" because you know in the deepest depths of your cuntsI'm a man, but whatever helps you sleep at night.
>>33688316>I'm a manThen why the fuck do you presume to know what goes on in a woman's head, dumbass?Women ask out guys they like all the time, happened to me several times. The only ones worried about slut shaming are the sluts. It's not "societal pressure," if girls aren't asking you out it's because they don't fucking want you.
>>33680744Because women used to be bought as goods.You don't expect goods to be active but you can give it basic order (cook, clean, suck dick, etc)But getting "progressive" made things into current situation where women are now more (((ACTIVE))) but in reality they're just parroting someone else.So they're still effectively being passive.
>>33689252>why the fuck do you presume to know what goes on in a woman's head, dumbass?NTA, but why do you?
