Started dating a new girl, we're both late 20s, I just got laid off a couple weeks ago. Thing is I didn't tell her I got laid off. I live with my parents and have tons of savings. I plan to go back to school. I need to make more than 56k a year. I don't know how to tell her about this. She definitely likes me just from her texts and the fact she's put up with my dumb bullshit and I make her giggle a lot. I don't want to give her the ick and especially by telling her I lied to her. I was told I should tell her like I just found out but I hate that too. I thought of being honest and just saying I really don't want to bring it up and apologizing but that might make it worse. Women advice too please tell me honestly how you feel about this whole situation.
>>33681776It seems like you're an earnest guy, hardworking guy who's just caught up between jobs, no biggie at all. Just be honest with her, that you got laid off and that you're solidly on the job hunt.If she gets the ick and doesn't see past the temporary stuff, it's better to stay away. A good woman will see you for your worth and effort and stick with you. My then gf now wife stayed with me despite me being unemployed and with my parents for the first six months of our relationship. She supported me every single day without doubting me or us even once. A true woman will make life worth living.
>>33681776Just be honest, or at least put a PR spin on it and say you're upgrading skills, looking for the best opportunity, etc.
Never say ick ever again
>>33681825>>33681791Should I tell her I already got laid off and didn't want to bring it up, or tell her it just happened but I saw it coming?And as much as I feel like a scumbag mentioning this, should I wait until after we slept together?
>>33681857Dude if you are thinking that you don't have to just feel like a scumbag, you are a scumbag.
>>33681776tell her you are still working leave like you are going to work dress up carry briefcase keep up the ruse
>>33681917nicethe boss in the game:https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jean-Claude_Romandcheck him out OP, some good ideas there
>>33681857>And as much as I feel like a scumbag mentioning this, should I wait until after we slept together?Well, what are you really after with this girl? If it's purely sex (which it seems like it is), then who cares what you say about being laid off, simply keep lying till you get in her pants and then leave. If you want a chance at something meaningful, stop thinking of things in such a pathetic, deceitful way and conduct yourself in an honest, honorable manner.My 2 cents? Be honest. Act with integrity. Stop being a retard.
