>mid twenties>autistic and sober from booze>no sex in more than half a decade due to being a mentalcel and becoming obese from depression>used to get a few women but never anyone more than a 5/10 when I was younger and better looking. Last year I got zero matches on the apps.Past month or so I've tried hinge and other apps. There's a few people I've matched with (by some miracle) as this year I've gotten out the house just a little bit so I at least looked a tiny bit more interesting. I am still lucky to get 1-3 matches a week since I am a repulsive obese freak.Every time an actual 7/10 who's skinny or more attractive than usual comes along. I always fumble it. Every single time I say something ridiculous. I have no idea how to talk to fucking women who are hot. She seemed into me as well. BUT I DONT KNOW WHAT I SAID TO FUCK IT UP. Still, I think I'm just going to have sex with the first person I can meet with to get some clarity on life. I feel like if I do that I can break out this blackpilled mindset. Call it shallow or whatever, but I've wasted my twenties so far and haven't experienced hookup culture or anything.I am convinced I'll never find a woman, it doesnt feel as easy as some people make it out to be. But then most people are talking about objectively attractive women. Not just the scraps the runts can pick up. Peace
>>33686173>repulsive obese freak.This an issue. Why do you expect women to want to date you when you are not even giving yourself a chance to be your regular, non goyslopped self? I know you're probably going to hate me saying this, but exercise is the only option you have to increase your chances of dating. Sure you could make millions and do it that way, but let's be realistic. I'm not saying go and chase gains in the gym. More that I think you should focus on losing some weight (even a little) and seeing how your mentality towards yourself changes. It doesn't have to be intense cardio based exercise. You simply just need to move your body around more. This will also require you to stop eating more than you need. Start calorie counting and regulating what you eat. Eating beige foods full of fat and sugar, is going to make you feel sluggish and lessen yours chances of improving your health. Don't rush into it or anything. Maybe start with one meal per day being light and healthy, and then work from there until every meal is healthy (or somewhat healthy).I promise you that in making this change to your lifestyle, your attitude will improve and how you interact with people will become easier and less awkward. TLDR: Women are not attracted to obese men. Move more. Eat better. Feel happy brain chemicals working. Change life. Attract women.
