Context: I'm 28 getting my Phd but taking some freshman classes for fun. I meet this freshman girl and it's not like she's super hot, or rather she dresses very modestly, but she is also incredibly cute and beautiful. She came up and sat next to me in class. She was shy at first but then started to open up and couldn't stop talking. She keeps breaking eye contact all embarrassed and sometimes her voice trembles. One time I was studying in the library, she came up and said "I was looking for you everywhere" and gave me a chocolate bar. One time we were at a book store and she was saying she really wanted this book but spent the rest of her money on uni supplies, so I bought her the book and she started crying and said she'd pay me back next month, and hugged me when I said there was no need to do so. I could tell she really was innocently grateful, and not doing the typical female manipulation to get you to buy something. I was melting out of cuteness.We have almost nothing in common, share no interests, and there are a lot of awkward silences. I'm used to being with women my age with whom I have a lot of sexual and conversational chemistry, so this kind of innocent, awkward, young love is new to me, and somewhat strange. Like it feels like I'm playing life on easy mode because everything I do is amazing to her. Obviously, because she has no life experience. I almost feel like a predator even though we haven't kissed and I haven't made any moves on her, although she is clearly interested. Besides the age difference, the fact we don't exactly vibe worries me. When the novelty of feeling young again disappears, there may be nothing solid there.What do I do? Let it go or make a move?
just go for it my man
>>33686387What do you like about her?Is it almost exclusively her youthfulness and innocence? in that case, you might want to leave it be, it wouldn't really be fair for her, innit. unless she's specifically into someone older and more experienced than her, in which case dunno.>We have almost nothing in common, share no interests, and there are a lot of awkward silences.I don't get this. surely you've asked her what her interests are? for me, even if I'm not particularly interested in the activity itself, I will be interested the other person's interactions with it.So just ask her what she likes about it, tell her what you find interesting/ boring/ don't get.but, if you find her cute and charming, like spending time around her, all for more reason than just her being young, do go for it.
be upfront about your feelings and make sure she is about hers; you'd be doing her a favor instead of possibly stringing her along, plus you might get a fuckbuddy.
>>33686387This doesn't sound like a white girl, what country is this and what ethnic background is she?
>>33686431I like her values and the way she carries herself. She has a good head on her shoulders, seems to have a long term plan for her life and career, dresses modestly, has no interest in parties or substance abuse. Of course, the timidness, the awkwardness, the innocent romantic gestures are all part of the superficial youthful charm, but I do think she has something more to offer besides being young and cute.We speak of interests. We share some, of course. She's a singer and dancer, so she's into a lot of genres of music I like too, but she likes KPop the most, which I can't get into. We both like literature, but she likes YA, and I like the classics. We both like small town fairs and countryside living, but I'm far more adrenaline-junkied in my naturalistic interests (hiking, long trails etc). She has typical teenage girl interests. I don't think sharing interests is necessary for a relationship to work, but it helps I guess.
thats a flingplay it mostly passive and enjoy the attentionin a year or 2 you'll know if it's going to last
>>33686387Just go for it who gives a fuck >>33686452And also this, by the way she's acting, it seems more like she's just trying to fuck, been there done that.
>>33686678OP says she's modest and innocent and you retards jump to her being a whore
>>33686685I've met a ton of girls who seemed modest and innocent but were actually mega sluts, way to expose your virginity loser.
Mernin Brotogs.It is Friday
>>33686694very true unfortunately, but you still gotta give em them benefit of the doubt sometimes
>>33686694And there are many modest girls who are actually innocent and not gigawhores in disguise. And generally you can tell.
>>33686387Don't worry ever worry about her interests because women often lie and say they are interested in what you like when they are not. Maybe her interests are having your kids.
>>33686387It seems like you have no prior experience with nice women as you're crushing on an uninteresting girl solely because she's nice. You can do better probably. I feel like if another rando girl acted like her you'd like her too.Other than that take it slow, she's going nowhere and you're going to see her in the university after the said class ends occasionally anyway. Then you'll talk.It seems like the real problem is you not knowing what to talk to her about. You can try gossip or having a friendly debate on any topic, this works even for NPC's
>>33686387make a move, she's an adultmy first serious gf was 16 when I met her, I was 26, we stayed together for yearsalso that's legal in my country but nevertheless, give it a try, if you have things in common you go ahead
>>33686387Also if you would indeed like her then just be close friends for a few years if you don't want problems with her parents. Esp since she sounds younger than her age emotionally
>>33686387>le innocent 18 year old who is not like the MEAN OLD ROASTIES I usually have sex with, because I have lots of sex. I feel so old being a zoomer, and yet this other zoomer makes me feel so young!shit larp, the lolita novel written as a shitpost>>33686432>be upfront about your feelingsyes I'd like to order a one-way ticket to The Friend Zone, because that's what you get talking about your gay feelings when you haven't even gone on a date yet.>>33686451>adrenaline-junkied>hikinglaughing my ass off
