How can I deal with the fact that I'm just too ugly and too short to have a girlfriend like picrel?I wish I could let go of this desire but whenever I see girls at the gym or when I go for a run I feel terribly depressed. They are just so out of reach for me no matter how fit I am myself.
those girls are mid af and sporty girls tend to have inflated egos
why stop?if you're fit and manage to level up your game, you can land a short cardio bunny.this may involve getting a couple practice gfs who probably won't be fitbut you've got some work to do on yourself first, the self-defeatism here is proper woman-repellent
>>33686582>why stop?Because >>33686579 said it right. Once a girl goes for like 1 run or steps 1 foot into the gym, she only wants 6ft+ handsome athletic guys. I am ugly and only 5'9", I am just not in their league, no matter how athletic I am, how good my body gets, how far and fast I can run.
>>33686617>I am ugly and only 5'9"Hi Austrian ginger.>no matter how athletic I am, how good my body gets, how far and fast I can run.Nice hypothetical. You're not remotely athletic and your body is still shit.
>>33686647I have been lifting and running for almost 4 years now. I can lift 1/2/3/4 for 3 reps, run a 21 min 5K as well as a 44 min 10K. How is that not fit already?
>>33686672doing good anonwhat about women? do you have a gf already?
>>33686672If you looked fit you wouldn't have such a problem attracting fit girls. Like attracts like.So you're either lying about your fitness accomplishments or you're lying about how you wouldn't be able to get one, likely out of ego-preservation and fear. Take your pick.>b-but I'm uglyNigger there's plenty of ugly girls with great bodies, butterfaces are extremely prevalent in fitness for both men and women.I also like how you didn't even deny being Austrian ginger kek
>>33686681No, I managed to break my addiction to this place for a couple of months but I relapsed out of loneliness. I managed to make a few new friends in college but they are all giga nerds who never go out. Feels like I never made any progress. I only study for my degree, work out and I play the violin now every day alongside getting weekly lessons.
>>33686704>you're lying about how you wouldn't be able to get oneI mean, I haven't tried to talk to any fit girls but I know from what I have gathered online (especially this place) that I don't fit their dating criteria of what guys they actually want.
>>33686715>I mean, I haven't tried to talk to any fit girlsOh really now, what an unexpected surprise!> from what I have gathered online (especially this place)Yeah, from other incels and losers like yourself. How many of your own shit threads are using as a reference here? Talk about self-fulfilling prophecy.>Every girl who is fit turns into a 5/10 at least.Why would that not apply equally to men then?And yes, I'm answering your question from your cringe crosspost to /fit/ here.
>>33686715> what I have gathered online (especially this place)careful, believing what you read here is a recipe for disaster, this is doomer centralanyway, what you need now is to build up some experience and confidence in relationships with the other gender. I'd suggest trying to fuck some easier women. lower your standards and get some (as long as you can get it up it's fine). older, single moms, etc. some of them aren't that hard and still look fine
>>33686727>Why would that not apply equally to men then?Because what makes a man attractive is completely dependent on his genes, height, jaw, cheekbones, shape of his teeth, frame, muscle insertions etc.Girls can be cute with a small jaw/chin, guys cannot. Girls can be cute and endearing with small teeth as well as hot with big teeth, men with small teeth look ugly. Girls can be cute with a rounder face with less prominent cheekbones and hot with prominent ones (look at models). Men with small cheekbones look like shit. Short girls are cute, tall girls are hot. Short men are worthless subhuman, only tall men are deemed as handsome. Etc. Etc.
>>33686561>How can I deal with the fact that I'm just too ugly and too short to have a girlfriend like picrel?You don't. You die alone, because your ugliness is not just skin deep. You die in misery, because you refuse to even try to talk to the opposite sex due to some inane vanity standard that was made up by a bunch of terminally online men that cherry picked the words of a handful of retarded whores and decided they constituted hard and fast rules. You die a virgin, because cowardice is comfortable and easy, and like all cowards you will fight tooth and nail just to wallow in it, up to and including calling others delusional for even suggesting that you take a step into the real world and try to be a man for once in your life.There's nothing you can do, OP. Because you yourself have already given up, and the only person who can save you at this point is you.
Athletic women are hot but usually they're cunts. They have not much introspection and they care about appearances a lot
>>33687036This is true, and too high maintenance. Much less of a hassle to just go for a pretty face and not fat, which in modern day with makeup just means don't be fat
>>33686791>Because what makes a man attractive is completely dependent on his genes, height, jaw, cheekbones, shape of his teeth, frame, muscle insertions etc."is what I've read online on incel forums"...there anon I finished the sentence for you.Guys like you who don't know the first thing about women don't get to dictate the conversation about what women actually like. If anything you have it backwards. We value a pretty face in women much more than they do in us. There are a lot of ugly ass dudes with girlfriends out there. The only things preventing you from being one of them are your cowardice, self-pity and neuroticism.
>>33687036>They have not much introspection and they care about appearances a lotSounds just like OP then. The only difference is unlike him they're actually good looking enough to get away with it.
>>33687663>We value a pretty face in women much more than they do in usThey don't. This is a myth. There are tons of studies on this that women care as much if not more about genetics than men do.
>>33687730>le incel studiesKek ok, go ahead and link me these "studies" and furthermore, prove to me that they're saying exactly what you think they're saying.
>>33687783>Kek ok, go ahead and link me these "studies"Literally Google "male attractiveness studies", I don't need to cite specific examples because they're everywhere.
>>33687815Sure they are. That was a quick defeat anon.
