Aside from being an autist, I almost won the life lottery: I got a good job, good looks, big dick, and money I can retire on but I also have genital herpes on top of it all. I hate that I have to disclose my status (or risk getting arrested in some states). I hate that it makes me the last person the average woman would want to touch. It's killed my self esteem and of course it's killed my sex life.How do I get over my self-hate and what can I do to get laid again? I don't want to wear condoms for the rest of my life either. Just kill me if it comes down to that.
eat less dairy
>>33687757I'm lactose intolerant so I already got that covered.
>>33687673escape that hellish countryI have herpes here, it's not mandatory to tell people and unless you have a bad break out you usually don't transmit it to people
>>33687822>escape that hellish countryCurrently working on getting dual citizenship so that I can leave the US.I only get a minor breakout once or twice a year and yet I get treated as if I have HIV. Such bullshit.
>>33687673try celibacymaybe in your next life you'll learn not to be such a sex pest, lmao get fucked
>>33688161>celibacyAlready doing that. Thanks for the free bump.
>>33687822>unless you have a bad break out you usually don't transmit it to peopleDamn, that's your justification for risking someone else's health because you don't want to be honest about your crusty dick?>>33687850Good, get the fuck out and go cause health problems somewhere else. It isn't HIV but clearly it's causing you problems so it should be obvious why no one else wants to catch it from you. People also steer clear of anyone who is sick with something mundane like a cold or stomach virus even though those pass. Herpes is the gift that keeps on giving. People like you two self-centered assholes are the reason recurring or nontreatable STDs are even a problem.
>>33688195if I were a self-centered asshole, I wouldn't have made this thread>nontreatable STDsIt's not curable but it is treatable. I take Valacyclovir which reduces transmission rates. Herpes isn't included in a standard STD test so good luck trusting a random thot to not have it.
>>33687673Move to Africa. They fuck monkeys with AIDS there so a little Herpes won't matter.
>>33688209>so good luck trusting a random thot to not have itSo you're saying you fuck random thots instead of trying to find women of good character to have long term relationships with?I know they are few and far in between these days, but it's still possible to find them. If you're not trying to do that you have no one to blame but yourself. You just wanted to be a manwhore and bust quick and easy nuts, and you got what you fucking deserve.Also stop using autist-face. No one who is autistic actually gets laid with any consistency. You're a fucking poser and a normie.
>>33689796>So you're saying you fuck random thotsNo, I'm not. I literally said that I'm celibate. I've had sex with only two women (whom I disclosed to) within the past 7 or so years. These are some pretty shitty replies for an advice board.
>>33689807So how did you get it in the first place? That seems to be the one thing you're avoiding telling anyone. You don't just wake up one day with an STD lol.
>>33689815I had sex with a woman who didn't know she had it. She refused to believe that she gave it to me (even though I got tested regularly) and she bailed. Ever since then, my sex life went on pause and then came the aforementioned self-esteem issues.Came here seeking advice or even a hug and I'm getting treated like a diseased manwhore.
>>33689819You're telling incels that you had herpes from fucking rosties. What do you expect but the consequences of your actions?
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>>33688195I've fucked more women than I'd be proud to admit if I'm dating a honest, cute and down to earth girl and I transmitted my herpes just once and that was because I was having a breakout and she had a cold, so low defenses, everyone else, the 50+ women are clean as a sheet.she insisted on us having sex despite me telling her I was having a breakout btw, so she wasn't mad when what happened afterwards happened.
>>33689819incels will treat anyone with an std like a leper because they don't know how easy is to get them once you actually go out and have some sex, I got warts from a girl who only had two bfs before me, it just happens.
>>33687673>I don't want to wear condoms for the rest of my life either.Well, sorry, but that's the way it is. People with type 1 diabetes don't want to inject insulin for the rest of their lives; and people with massive spinal injuries don't want to be in wheelchairs for the rest of their lives; but they don't have any choice in the matter, and neither do you; that's just how life is sometimes. Are you really so selfish that you want to make someone else go through exactly what you are going through?
>>33689819>I'm getting treated like a diseased manwhoreBecause you fucking are one>>33690277>they don't know how easy is to get them once you actually go out and have some sexOr maybe they just know how to use a fucking condom lol. I've gotten around in my day, I know to ask a girl to get tested before hitting raw. You're just a dumb manwhore that can't wait so you'll have raw sex with sketchy women.>>33690493Also this, nut up buttercup.
Also what's with this propaganda that herpes isn't part of a "standard" STD test?AnyLabTestNow, LabCorp, Full STD panel including both HSV strains and HIV test, $299. Google it yourself. You're just cheap lazy manwhores. If you're gonna go out playing pussy roulette, at least do it right so we clean ones don't get more infected!
>>33691390>go a night out>ask for tests when you arrive to their homeyou never had casual sex and it shows
>>33691543>you never had casual sex and it showsHas it crossed your mind that perhaps I don't want casual sex? That maybe I'm actually just being content getting into LTRs that don't happen to work out cuz I wanna do the married with kids thing?
