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How would you go about building a social life as a 29 year old male that just moved to a small town (50k people)? There's 0 organized groups from what I see. Moved here since rent is cheap (I wfh) and my parents live a block away.
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>>33688071
Whatever the nearest college bar is, that's going to be your best bet. Living that close to your parents is going to be pussy repellent so good luck man
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>>33688104
There's a community college here, so not sure it applies to the bar scene. Most girls go to school here 18-20, then leave to the university a couple hours away. I tried all the bars and it's just chicks in their 30s at best. Everyone is in cliques that seem to frequent a couple times a week after work. Mostly manual labor people or military.
>Living that close to your parents is going to be pussy repellent
why? I have my own 2 bed, 2 bath. My family is just a 10 min walk away is all.
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>>33688071
Looks like you discovered why the rent is cheap.

Enjoy the next year of solitude
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>>33688218
Do you advise anything differently? Idk if a social life is really worth spending twice in rent and seeing my family less often. So far to cope I just book a trip a few times a year for a week and just socialize 24/7 in the new location for fun/memories.
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>>33688071
Good luck but it's probably over for you. Unless you want to be the founder of a group and try and get people to join it?
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>>33688741
Is it not over for others? Occasionally I'll reach out to my old college buddies and seems they stopped all social circles once they got married/working and focused on their kids or career.
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>>33688227
>So far to cope I just book a trip a few times a year for a week and just socialize 24/7 in the new location for fun/memories.
i did this for a couple of years and the result was never building anything in my hometown + throwing away all my ressources for transport/ accomodation which could have been properly invested into building a place to meet up in hometown.
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>>33690270
>properly invested into building a place to meet up in hometown
How would you go about this then?



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