>over 2 months co-worker and I get closer.>go out partying with some friends, get drunk.>we go back to her place, only for her to sit me down and tell me she's not interested. >convince her to give me a chance, we hook up and have a great night.>2 days later we go out for coffee, she tries to break up with me, i convince her not to since we didn't even really date properly.>we have a great rest of the day together.>back at work over the past 2 weeks she rotates between being friendly and cold.>text messages are curt no matter what.>she's avoided every chance to hang out.What am I supposed to do now? I cannot get a read at all on what I need to get her out of this weird back and forth. I haven't been in a relationship for 6 years, is this just what it's like to date when you're old?
she wasn't having a great time during youe stay nor during your date.she's told you twice she's not interested, and is probably afraid you're going to do something as you know where she lives nowleave her alone you twat
please leave her alone anon
>>33692997>>33693053You're completely correct. I just needed someone else to say it. I'm so stupid.
>>33692494You want romance. She wants a friend.
>>33692494She's not really attracted to you, but enjoys having you as a friend.You pushed her into having sex, and now that she is sober she is worried about the ramifications.In other words, she's concerned you might push her for a relationship, mess up her job, act like a creepy nut job who stalks her.So where do you go from here?Depends on how you feel about her.If you actually want a relationship with her, I would meet up with her be direct and apologize. You misread into something you thought was there. So you are setting boundaries, which will ruin the friendship and keep things professional.If you just want friends with benefits, she might be interested but you have to be able to keep it cool and discreet. If she thinks you are going to catch feelings it is going to creep her out.I don't think the two of you can just be friends anymore, you ruined that for one night of horny.
