>>33692551
Its not confusing. Youre overthinking your identity and this whoke cultural goth fad of changing your gender added a whole new layer of complexity because you feel like youre supposed to do that but its kinda daunting because its a lot.

Youre gay. End of story. You don't have to add any bells and whistles. You're not that special. No one is.

>>33692565
>Youre gay. End of story.
You'd probably say the same thing to every tranny

>>33692571
Yes because thats what it is. And yeah gay people were always kind of effeminate.
Adding this whole element of "actually youre a woman" and "you need to do all this extra shit" is cultural. And it will go away in like 20 years.
Edgy teens scramble for identity, they'll believe any dumb shit that gives them meaning. This is literally how ISIS and cults recruit new members. Find disenfranchised outcasts and offer them meaning and theyre on it like flies on shit.

And it relies heavily on one thing older than time; teenagers way overperceive how special they are and want to be edgelords, and it can set them up for life with an identity even if it's weird.

But youre gay and yoj thought "nope. Not special enough. I gotta be even more of an individual" whether you like it or not, whether you see it or not, thats it.

>>33692641
>>33692571
Oh and id also bet youre autistic. High rate of that in Trans. Because of course the socially stunted people who dont know how to tone it tf down are into this.

>>33692551
>femboy
You're just a man. Everyone sees you as some weirdo pervert and you look like one.

>>33692551
LOL

>>33692641
>Adding this whole element of "actually youre a woman" and "you need to do all this extra shit" is cultural. And it will go away in like 20 years.
what about people who have dysphoria(like me)?
what about trans that want to have a vagina? that's more than just being "gay"
in fact some of them exclusively want to be with cis women

>>33692736
Well you will never be a woman. At best you will be a man that looks like a woman. It's best to just accept that and live as a man.

>>33692736
NTA. yeah, it's a mental illness and it sucks and I truly wish for your betterment and happiness,
but I won't encourage it

>>33692551
>thinking about becoming trans again
the rope and chair is in the corner

>>33692736
Genital dysphoria is widely disregarded, just like endocrine dysphoria and social dysphoria.
Cissies simply do not understand, and antis are almost always extremely repressed.

>>33692863
Okay, you have genital dysphoria. So what? I'd love to look different than I do but I don't. I'd love to be taller but I'm not.

>>33692873
Thank you for proving my point.

>>33692889
How? I've been pretty emotionally perturbed over looking at my face before. Do you think only trans people have problems or something?

>>33692898
I'm simply stating that you don't understand genital dysphoria or other forms of gender dysphoria.
If you think this is wrong, maybe think about what that means for you. Cis people, by definition, do not understand gender dysphoria.

>>33692889
yeah I hate my wristlets and get nauseatingly disgusted by fat pockets on my legs at times
do I deserve expensive medical procedures and body-altering medication because those areas of my body hurt me fewwings??? :'((((
or had I rather come to terms with the fact that I'm wayy to invested in some perceived bodily insufficiencies and should work on being less bothered about them?

>>33692922
what makes your self-hatred so special, then?

>>33692922
What I'm saying is that maybe your problems aren't as unique as you think. Sure I'll never really understand gender dysphoria per se, but you could say I've felt dysphoria about my appearance writ large many times. Do you think you're the only person to go through problems? And why are so many more people trans now than there used to be? Could it be that they used to fixate that dysphoric urge on something else?

>>33692924
>do I deserve expensive medical procedures and body-altering medication
Like healthy nutrition to deal with your fatty legs? Yes, of course.
>>33692933
Look up statistics of left-handed kids.
>>33692932
The fact that there's established empirical consensus on treatment. You know, evidence-based medicine.

Anyway, thanks for these riveting new questions that totally didn't prove my point even more, I'm gonna spend all your tax money on fleshlights now, bye.

>>33692986
>Look up statistics of left-handed kids.
Not an argument. Only a potential explanation for the rise. No argument for why that's the best explanation.
>there's established empirical consensus on treatment
Nonsense. These words mean nothing.

>>33692986
it's not unhealthy nutrition, it's just unbecoming fat distribution. you know, supeficial cultural ideals, the kind you probably like to complain about m. well done ignoring the point

>left-handedness
riveting, truly. there is a qualitative difference with handedness and dysphoria, thougheverbeit

>evidence
oh yeah, the kind that does report short-term betterment, mostly followed by regression to the prior mean?

>>33692744
>At best you will be a man that looks like a woman.
so? that's preferable to what I am now
>>33692922
OP here
Are you trans?
Do I actually have dysphoria?

>>33693224
you have a mental illness and you should try to manage it. it's a good thing you acnkowledge you will never be a woman because it's important you're not being delusional as many similar patients are

>>33692551
OP, it’s your life. At the end of the day only you can make the decision to either fully medically and/or socially transition, and only you can decide if that’s a fulfilling life once you do.

The thing about transitioning in my experience, is that it’s very difficult if you’re too focused on outside perception. You have to transition because you want that life more than anything you have now, and you have to be willing to accept that you will always face criticism and lack of understanding for it.

And yeah, you will never be a woman. But you can get close enough to the idea of it.

>>33692551
Low testosterone. Eat fatty cuts of beef. raw eggs

>>33693224
Is it worth the loss of fertility and the voluntary dependence on expensive medical technology?

>>33693459
This doesn't work for reppers
The buff gym repper on tren and and the high T army repper are both known stereotypes that still give in and transition eventually
I know you wanna believe it's not a genuine thing but it really is just innate in some people and the coping doesn't work

>>33692551
If you cant fix whats broken, youll go insane.

>>33693512
Or you could just be a femboy/androgynous. It'll be more likely to work than going all the way in the other direction. The reason that's bad is because it forces you to split your personality in two, and there's going to be a constant conflict between the two. You'd do better to attempt to integrate the two pulls.

>>33693512
After you get off cycle testosterone drops like a rock, so its no wonder so many body builders troon out.

Military is not a high testosterone thing either, it's high stress and high cortisol. The kind of physical activity they do lowers testosterone. And many soldiers also get PTSD which causes issues with identities and self image

>>33693474
>Is it worth the loss of fertility
Yes I have never had a desire to have children
>voluntary dependence on expensive medical technology
I have money

>>33692551
You think that's bad? Imagine you are blissfully repping, and a bio woman foid on the internet unironically tells you that you look like a woman.

Non binary here
Stop conflating your life with mine.

>>33696097
Maybe I am non-binary.
How would you or I know at this point?